Hey so i met this girl hanging out with my friends and she was chill and everything and i talked to her made her laugh and stuff. we sit down some where and we are chillin and her friend comes on top of me and flirting a bit and the girl goes on my friend and cuddles with him but doesnt do anything with him. so we all left where we were at and i decided to to go to the store we were in the aisles and we were talkin and we really hit it off. then me and my friend had to go so we left and he said bye to the girl and her friend ,and she showed no IOI.. but when i hugged her friend and then her she gave me a big hug and i said what is that all i get and she said "what do u want a kiss" and i said "ya of course" and we kissed and then she said i was really cute and asked for my number and i gave it to her. then she text me 10 seconds later saying your so cute....

A week after we talked and talked and then she kept asking me too hang out then we finally we decided to chill one day just me and her so we did and i went to her house and then we where down stairs in her basement watching a movie and i put my arm around her then got a little more comfortable with her and she was laying on me. we were flirting a little i called her beautiful and stuff kissed her hand and said ur gorgeous and stuff and she kept saying omg your so cute.. we were tickling each other a bit playing around while she was laying on me and her earring fell off so she tried putting it on and she couldn't get it so i said gimmie and as i went to put it on her i kissed her and from then till i had to go we just kept kissing and flirting. the same day she made plans with one of her friends to go to star bucks so i walked her half way and talked to her a little and she was talking about this guy friend of hers and then we started talking about something else and then we stopped talking and i was just looking around while we were walking (i no stupid move but i didnt no what else to do) so then after i walked her i gave her a hug and kiss good bye..

After that we talked later on and kept talking and talking ......then during school she just gave me quick hugs and then left we really didnt talk or anything and if we talk i always have to text her first so we could start a conversation or anyhing and she says she really likes me but yet evry time im on facebook or aim she doesnt write to me i have to right first ..but idk if its because shes a year older idk...... . but in the conversations we do hit it off and she says i wish i was with u right now i wanna be next ta u and a bunch of other stuffand then i say it bak.... but on her facebook it shows that she writes on everyones wall .. and when i caled er over for a hug she kept walking and idk what to do to get her to want me more like she says she does and ioi is definatly their but i think other guys are interferring and she sometimes says stuff that kicks the IOIs right out of the door........ what should i do !!!!!!!! help please i think shes playing me like ii think i gave her to much praise idk and i need to be social with her in person.. please help i want her to like me alott and wanna go out with her...

firstly i have to msg my girlfriend before she wil msg me. alot of girls are like this sometimes you just have to msg or talk to them on facebook first. trust me. just dont do it EVERY day.
because it sounds like you have been praising her too much. probably sounding quite needy in the process, this would also make it look needy when you msg her or talk to her on facebook. this isnt necessarily a bad thing because alot of girls thrive on this, they like having a guy who throws them compliments and always wants to talk but the reason she probably doesnt really talk to you at school/whatever is because girls like dominant guys. she doesnt wanna show off some guy who clearly doesnt wear the pants in the relationship.
so if your happy being a toyboy then keep going down the path you are. if not you need to show that you are not dependant on her.

how do i show that i am not dependent and have her feel like i am dominant

uum well it really depends. i would suggest other girls (not even like "yea i fucked this chick" just say you were hanging out with jess or whatever make it up)
make it sound like girls are interested in you so she thinks she has competition. otherwise you could make some sort of in joke (ive done this before so its field tested) where your her master (not in a sexual way, but you can make it sexual later).
msg her and when she msgs back dont reply for like 5hours.
i dont know man its all callibration and dependant on what you think will get her questioning what you are like. just make sure you are dominant in the relationship. she should wait on you. not the other way round.