But not be boring, clingy, or being over complimentative?

I don't have much trouble initially attracting girls. Not physically. But beyond that, something is terribly wrong.

I don't know how to not be those 3 things above. How do you keep a girl interested, and let her know you're interested, without falling into one of those?


1). How much is too much talking?
2). How long should you wait after meeting and talking to a girl, before asking her to hang out?
3). What should be the first thing you two do together, in your opinion

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1. Let the girl talk about herself, it's most likely her favorite subject. Add in some funny commentary and take control by steering her talking towards different subjects. If you feel like you're talking too much, you're probably just nervous. Try and chill, I always remember this quote from Pulp Fiction.

'That's when you know you found somebody special. When you can just shit the fuck up for a minute and comfortably share silence.'

Don't be scared of a little pause.

2. If you have her number, call her and ask her out. Every minute you wait is another minute you are giving some other guy an opportunity to swoop in and take her out.

3. I always like activity dates. Bowling is always fun because no one is all that good at bowling, so people kind of let down their guard. You can give her high fives and stuff and work on kino if she gets a spare or a strike or something. I avoid dinner and movies on first dates, stuffing your face and watching a movie is not a good way to get to know somebody. Coffee isn't bad, especially because if the girl is a bust you can bail after a short period of time, and with minimal financial investment.

Truth!

Let her talk about her self... W8 every time when she say something that you like and make her notice it

Ohh i like that too!
I totally agree!
I know what you mean! etc...
I love it!

She will feel like you understand her, that you have some things in common etc.

And most important laugh and kino-ing.

You must make her feel comfortable talking about everything, and than use that like you have many things in common... with that if you do good kino, you will score her