Right so il begin with back story on myself. Growing up in a foreign country is never easy especially when its the other side of the world.

Im practically Scottish. I talk the langauge, (english) I speak the slang, I have the accent and I support my football team. (HEARTS!!)

But people always seem to look down on me and have no respect. Whatever way you look at it, asians are always made fun of racially or culturally. I guess society and films made asians look quiet and shy which in turn made them look weak.

People like to take the piss and make themself seem alpha infront of their mates. Of course I took this shit and as time went by, i stop being as social and basically stayed in every night just to avoid the embarressment. It hurts yano? I mean you just wanna fit in n have fun with your mates wherether having a party or just chilling but when you have this belief that everyone around your area thinks so lowly of you, you just go "why bother"?

It has affected me growing up and i have been quite depressed about it. Our parents always teached us to be polite, listen to adults and work hard in school so we can get a good job in the future. But they dont really understand what WE go through.

So heres the part where it doesnt sound like im suicidal

Pick up is THE NUMBER ONE REASON why i have gain so much coinfidence! I used to be hopeless at any social situations like even making small talk or asking simple questions. The girls aint flooding in yet but getting there

I just hope in the near future, asians arent all seen as geeks who wear glasses and have a obsession with our hair. (even though we do lol) PUAs like Grandma (give that man a cigar!) are slowly breaking the stereotype but it aint enough. SOCIETY HAS TO CHANGE!!

Congrats if you made it to the bottom of the post Just need to get my point across.

Cheers guys

I wish you should change your subject to: Please listen to my story.

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magnum man stfu.

Whats the point of being disrespectful to simply act like your boss?
If you think it drags then fair enough but if your gonna slag me off then do it properly, flippin sad act.

Cheers jack, asian playboy is defo a top bloke.

I just want to add..

I am white but I lived in Asia for two years and there's a lot of stereotypes about white guys there, some good, some bad.

Most of the hot, smart women in Asia are not really interested in white guys contrary to what gets said. I thought that sucked and it made me depressed.

So, I realized there were really two options:

1) Leave and go somewhere where this stereotype didn't exist.

2) Change myself to better fit society and be comfortable with who I was

I chose 2 to some degree. I let go of some of the machoism, muscle and western 'rudeness'. I realized that there were positive stereotypes that I could embrace: world traveler, outgoing, cool, 'big' but let go of the negative ones.

So, I tried to embrace both some local traits while enhancing the ones from my background.

As an Asian guy, you will always differ from the norm in Scotland. So you really have to decide if you will conform somewhat or maybe leave for another place.

You can still be polite and career driven, but still work out and become more assertive. You don't have to change everything, just do a little bit more. Lift some heavy weights, don't take crap, be more outgoing and assertive, particularly with girls. So you meet them at what they are used to, but then you have that extra edge of being different.

I'm not trying to hurt your feelings. I'm not trying to be the boss. I am trying to help you address your messages more apporpriatly so people will know what to expect. I was expecting a problem.

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