I've been dating this woman for about 1 month. Been on 3 dates. The first 2 there was alot of physical contact and I felt there was a definite connection, she said the same. She text messaged me last week and broke it off without an explanation, and then the next day calls me up and pours her heart out telling me about something really bad that happened that day. She was crying alot and we talked for like 4-5 hours about it. (I won't go into it but she was being sincere) and we agreed to see each other still. She seemed to be alot more interested the days following that until our latest date (calling every night, etc.).

We went out again and it was great, at the end of the date I went to kiss her and she says that "She wants to be in a relationship before she gets physical." I have already kissed her a few times before (ones that I had to end even). I gave her a hug in which she just stood there and didn't really hug me back. I went ahead and asked her out again in which she said "yes" without hesitation. Now we have been physical on the first 2 dates, but then she says this? That's the part that confused me. Do you guys think I fell into the friend zone? Am I being played with? Is she just after a free dinner and night out? I'm not trying to get her into bed or anything, I actually like this girl.

I don't know what to do!! Now, we had agreed to take it slow, I guess that means "just friends" to her? Maybe I'm just over-reacting from a deflated ego! lol

Any advice or tips?
Thanks!!!

Yea she thinks your somebody that you are not. She thinks you are the strong confident guy who uses girls for sex.

You obviously are not. But she doesn't know that.

I advise you to tell her that you don't use women for sex.

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