So im a decent looking guy. All of my girlfriends have been really hot,but i never had to work for them we just started as friends and liked each other. Now I'm in college and im hopeless. All i want to do is go out and have fun. I have read Mystery's books and many others and i have a full understanding and knowledge of how to pick up a girl. I realize that 90% of this knowledge does not apply to college parties. I have been out every weekend twice a week and have never once hooked up and i danced with only one other girl. I have come to the point were I want to give up. All of my friends hook up as i get to watch them make out and dry hump against a wall. I'm sick of it. I cant approach girls. When i get the balls to i get rejected. There is NO room for game at a college party girls just pick who they want to grind on and its never me. I wish i had the opportunity to show these girls who I am cuz im an amazing kisser/lover and an amazing boyfriend but its just the getting there thats killing me. I could really use some guidance because i have no idea where to turn on this one.

i think you need to relax a bit have a good time and smile i no that the times that i go out just to hook up with chicks that is when i have the worst night and get rejected the most. the beauty about pick up material is that its designed to come across as just a friendly chat then if she likes u and more importantly u like her from those first couple of minutes then ur in and if she doesnt like u as u said 'amazing kisser/lover' then shes missing out. but i think the best thing to do is to maybe just go out relax dont try to pick up just talk to all the chicks u can and reaffirm ur skills with women and get comfortable.
hope this helps u man, thanx storm

The way I see it, and I'm sorry ifit sounds crazy, you are thinking too much about it. When you think too much about something and you see the possibility of failure, chances are that you will fail! Sort of like having a blackout during an exam caused by stress. Like Storm said, just relax, have fun and the rest will follow.

thanks for the helpful replies. what you said makes sense. how do u go about meeting girls when its too crowded/loud to have a proper conversation?

Reading Mystery Method has filled your head with limiting beliefs. Mystery Method actualy exacerbates sexual anxiety for most people in many ways.

Unlearn whatever you can of it because it is definitely not going to help you with college game. What you need to do is to sexually escalate more often.