Went out to a party last night. I was pretty drunk from a lot of jungle juice. I started talking to this cute girl and we talked about our major (same major) and things about it. anyways, she gives me her phone number and i give her mine and then we start dancing. we start making out with tongue and everything and i had my hands on her ass and we were dry humping. so i ask her if she wants to go back to my place to "watch a movie" and she says yeah lets go. i told her i had to grab my coat which i put in someones bedroom and id be right back.

i couldnt find my coat. i was wasted and i couldnt find it because there were so many other coats. i just got it and its really expensive so there was no way i was leaving without it. it took me 15 minutes to find it....ugh.

i go to find her and shes with 4 of her girl friends (terrible sign right there) and i asked her if shes ready to go. she said i think im just going to stay and hang out with my friends. so i said ok, and asked if she wanted to dance (try and get her back in the mood) and she said not at the moment because i just want to hang out with them for a bit....so i said ok and my friend and i ended up leaving a little later and she had already left with her friends. i texted her a little later making a joke about something we said but she never responded.

so i had this girl, she wanted to go back and have sex but in the long amount of time it was taking to grab my jacket im sure her friends were like "dont do this, you barely even know him" and stuff like that. i have her number and would love to get a fuck buddy out of this.


im thinking when friday rolls around and im going out to a party i should send her a text saying im going to a party and ask her if she wants to come. i barely know the girl at all so im thinking my chances are slim and that it was just a drunk hook up that shes not interested in following up on. what do you guys think? any advice?

I would leave it.

She probably thinks of you (if she remembers you at all) as just a guy who failed to drunk-hook-up. If you two started dating, is that the way she would want to remember how you met?

Hit the reset button on this girl, and if you want to hang out with her again, don't try to build on the other night. Pretend it didn't happen and treat her like you would a stranger.

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yeah im thinking theres no reason to text her. ill just meet some new girls this weekend anyways. if she responded to my text message i would text her but she didnt so never mind.