sounds a bit like style's opener huh?
im not sure if im comfortable with it. i mean he is out of the country but he is coming back in about 4 months. i have no idea where they are standing. when they were together he treated her pretty poorly. he cheated on her and she was pretty much a booty call to him.
what do u guys think i should do? tell her that im uncomfortable with it? ask her how she feels about him?
i have no idea...

AMOG him.

Maybe your not satisfying her, and she is looking to other/old sources...

But not sure, i guess we would need more details? Are u really keen wen u tlk to her?

But, defiantly try to show your the alpha male, and reinforce her emotions to remind her hes a douche

oh we only started "seeing each other" 2 days ago. hes been gone for a month and a half now. yea i think your right. i need to show her that i am alpha and she doesnt need him hes a loser (hes going to be leaving again about 3 months after he gets back. for good i think)

A girl is never and will never be your property.
She is allowed to talk to whoever she likes, when you try to control her you're gonna hurt your relationship.


You don't catch a butterfly just to make a thight fist around it and wait for it to die.

ok. today the ex started talking to me on facebook. we argued for about an hour and a half as to who was in the wrong. he claims that he loves her but i think he is just jealous.
i decided to talk to her about it and she apologized telling me she no longer had feelings for him and the reason she still talks to him is that he was trying to make things work (sounding really needy in the process and lowering his value) and she was trying to convince him that they should just be friends.
so now im good with the girl.
im not too sure how the angry ex's return will go haha

Dont let things get to you. Just accept it and move on as if you dont give a fuck which will make YOU look less needy and MORE in control of yourself. Remember why should yo uworry about another guy in her life? You are the fun , interesting guy that doesnt care who she talks to as you dont see it as a threat!

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I have taken more out of alcohol than alcohol has taken out of me. ~Winston Churchill

Awesome, was just gonna say that.

Why would you care? She has the right to choose if she wants to be with you or not. It is a choice she makes every day and if she decides something else it is her decision.

She has got her own life. Just because she chooses to share part of it with you it doesnt mean that you have any right to make choices for her. She is as Jav said, not your property. She is your ally.

A relationship is two people living their lives in proximity to each other. Not two people living one life. Deal with it.