ok so tonight im meeting this girl. my boss and my sister have told her that i like her and i openly talk about it with her. although im getting ioi's from her and she keeps asking me to meet her, she hasnt told me she likes me and for some reason im getting the feeling im being played.
so tonight we are meeting to talk about it.
im also going clubbin with her friday and to her party saturday.

the thin i wanna kno how she feels about me. do u guys think i should just ask or what?

I think that you shouldn't ask very early if she likes you, because you will look needy, but instead try to read her IOI's.
This are some IOI's that might help you:
1. She always laughs at your jokes even if they aren't very funny.
2. She always continues the conversation if it drops.
3. She touches you, even if it is in a playful mode.
If you receive all these 3 IOI's you can take her hand, and kiss her without rejection.

thanks dude. that didnt even register. the situation is f-ing with my head i guess. altho i dont think the k close is really apropriate. im gunna go for that on friday.

100% agree and for me the biggest ioi is that she asks you to meet her, now we're all human and there is no way we would say that to the opposite sex if we wernt interested especially her knowing you are, if she wernt she would long you off man and make excuses or use the typical friend excuse.

Do not show interest in her unless she's showing you some interest. You've got the power to move the relationship, not her. So try to start qualifying HER.

ok guys im gunna tell u how it happened.
it was raining, she still wanted to meet up which im thinkin is an ioi. so anyways we met up and went for a walk along the waterfront. i didnt bring it up for a while becaause i wanted to get a feel for how comfortabl she was. she ended up pushing me trying to flirt etc so when we got back to her car i brought up the fact that she knows i like her and i wanted to kno what she thout about that. she said it was cool she still wanted to hang out etc
so about 20 mins after she left she sent me a long ass msg saying she doesnt think things should be awkward and that she cant wait to see me on friday. all her frends hav been telling me "u hav to come out friday and see her" etc so do u think i should go for the k-close then because it almost seems as though she has a plan of her own.
oh btw while we were talkin at her car one of her tittys popped out hahahah i dont think she knows i saw though hahahah

I.o.i's all over the place, she probably popped her tit out incase man haha a sneak preview or some shit! She seems like she's playing her own game, but stick to your plan, keep in control as the Alpha male, don't let her dictate what happens. Good luck

hahah yea i was pretty happy.
ok now i have a new update. today was a public holiday in australia. its a day where everyone gets drunk and parties. so anyways i had been drinking and wasnt in complete control. i had been messaging her for a while when one of my friends msgd me "hey how are things with that girl" to which i replied "pretty good. i just need to make a move"
but i sent it to her by accident
i was thinking i had messed up and i was gunna hav to make up some bs to cover my ass when she replied "yes you do".
we spoke about it after. so now i have confirmation. i need to grow some balls and close.

Sounds good man, a blessing in disguise... Now make the k close then later when comfortable the f close will come!

hahah shit!
i went to the club early with a few people we both know. by the time she got there i was very drunk. we ended up dancing and there was kino all over the place. i was having fun with her friends too (which i think she liked because i havent really gotten along with them in the past) so i ended up getting kicked out. she came out to see me and we talked for about ten minutes (i could have gone for the k close here but i didnt want it to be a dirty drunk first kiss )
so tonight at her party im going to limit my drinking. wish me luck!

Good luck man, so she's GF material to you. Remember you lead the way, go with the flow, and don't bottle it!

Arrrghh! No no NO! She blatantly told you you needed to make a move and then you managed to make up some BS excuse not to the next time you saw her!? If she's still seeing you, she must have the patience of a nun, an unpopular NUN. And for your future edification, if she keeps agreeing to see you, then she likes you, that's the only test you need. Anyway, I'm curious how things turned out here.

i know dude. i should have kissed her the first time she met me.
anyways the party was last night. i spent most of the night kino escalating (she actually isolated me to her bedroom a few times but her dad kept cock blocking me) so when everyone was getting ready for bed i asked her to take me for a walk. we ended up in this park where we talked for a while and then the kiss kinda just happened. it was cool. and she is by far the best kisser i have layed tongue on haha (she was getting into the biting an shit ) haha that was it though. when we got back to her house i kissed her good night and didnt try and f-close, i just went to bed.

now i want to turn it into a relationship.
thanks for all the help boys.

Dude, I am happy you still got your kiss, it's not often you get a second chance. She must be pretty into you already.