Hey guys,
I've reached a point where women have started to pay for me for some reason, is anyone else in this situation?

One example is I booty call this girl I met and it's been pretty clear were in it to get some fun out of it. We don't really know each other, this is the second time we see each other, I didn't kiss or close yet.

So I'm at the bar and I texted her like an hour before and she gets there, I tell her I'm going for a smoke and I'll be right back.

I come back and she's bought herself a drink and a shot of vodka for me and one for her. We take the shots, I drink most of her drink, we dance all sexy, getting physical, then we head to another bar where her friend works.

There she orders a bottle of fucking champagne!

So we finish the bottle and she's like wanna go? I'm like sure.

So we get a cab and start making out in it, we're escalating pretty fast, it's obvious what's going down. So we get to her place and she pays for the cab!

At her place, we close. (spare the details) then at 3:30 I'm like I have an interview tomorrow at 10am, it would be convenient if I slept here and she's like no, no you have to go home (concerned about the interview) so she puts 25$ in my hand to pay for the cab!

Anyways, I tried a little to get back in touch with her (invited her over for wine) and no reply. Needless to say I let her go I wasn't too hooked on her.

I've got a few questions relating to it.

1. Any ideas what I'm doing to encourage such behaviour? This sems quite against logic that a girl would spend so much (if any) money on a one nighter that she only saw once before.

2. What are the moral implications of what I'm doing? Is it wrong to let her pay for me like this?

3. I think it's ok, it's about time women reversed the roles a bit. Am I in the woman's seat? Is she hunting me?

4. Does it make me less of a man to let her pay for me?

I don't think you're less of a man for not paying. As far as I can tell, you lived a day in the life of a male escort hooray you

But if the whole not buying everything is really bothering you then you could try to arrange another meeting and try to pay for her as a way to say thank you for that awesome night kind of thing and try to get another lay in the process. That would seem to balance things out.

honestly man, thats why she is not replying to your invites. It sounds like she likes getting fucked up, and is forward about paying (but you were supposed to insist on paying for at least something). Pay for shit. Women like it, your wife will like it.

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