If you read some of my earlier posts I was talking about these two blond girls who I really wanted to meet but never had the balls to actually talk to. Well, over the past couple weeks I have talked to one of them a few times, never actually formally meeting but using some openers and just quick back and forth sort of chats. I still didn't learn her name or anything.

Well, today I was on facebook while doing my homework, and she signs on and says "heeey" (yeah, with the triple 'e' - you KNOW their smitten).

Anyway I was shocked that she was talking to me (even though I'm alpha and all.. haha trying to be confident here). Here's what I remember of the convo: (I know I was pretty AFC here, don't judge too harshly on that fact..)

Her: heeey
Me: hey, hows it going?
Her: Not very good I'm studying hard for exams haha hbu?
Me: shitty, tell me about it. I'm studying too, and its practically killing me. wait how do i know you again?

[i knew who it was but didnt want to seem too eager to be talking to her, thought i'd throw that in there]

she didn't respond for a few minutes..

Me: Ohh, i think i know who you are. you're that girl.. you go to my school.
Her: hahaha "that girl"? sick.
Me: yeah well thats just what i call girls i dont know that well. you can call me "that guy" if you want, to be fair.
Her: haha okay deall.

blah blah blah we chatted like that for a while about exams and stuff, i would have copied the convo but i forgot to.

So I'm not sure what to do from here. i said i'd talk to her tomorrow, which may have been a complete rookie move, but i got a bit nervous talking to her, didn't want to sound stupid.

I don't want things to go too slowly, can't be afraid to escalate here. Any suggestions for next steps?

Thanks guys

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to qoute u. dont worry about failure. its a crucial building block of success.
and seriously dont think about her. the last thing u want is a girl ur scared of being ur oneitis.
just talk to her for a while. get comfortable. shes giving u ioi's (opening convo, flirting with the "that girl" thing u got goin) sothere is no need to be scared. u just needed reassurance. and u got it. so go get her.
let us know how it plays out.

oh i forgot to ad.make up some bullshit dhv's. tell her your having a party or whatever, shes probably gunna say "u gunna invite me" or something hinting u to invite her. tell her that you dont know her well enough to invite her. (shes gunna want to get to know you so she can live the highlife that u supposedly have)
its not lying. its flirting.

It's always on.