if so, how was it like? is it even worth it to number close a sorority chick if ur not in a frat?

If you're not in a frat, it's gonna be tougher.

If you're not boys with guys in frats and go out with them, it's gonna be even tougher (unless of course you're on a team at school or you're just naturally awesome like me...I kid...kinda).

If you answered no to the first 2 qualifications, then just try befriending girls in different houses. Become cool with them, chill with them, but make it clear you guys are just friends, no matter how hard she tries to get you (well, don't actually tell her that, 'cause then she will want you, lol...just make sure she knows you don't want her).

Once you're kicking it with them, and you see their hot sorority friends out at a bar or whatever, you're socially accepted and should be good to go.

Make sense?

I dated a girl in a Sorority, and it had its pro's and con's. I am not in a Frat, and didn't even go to the same school, so it is possible if you don't meet the previous threads check list. One of the pro's is that it can be fun, and you can meet a lot of people you wouldn't have otherwise. Also, they go out a lot (can also be a con), and have organized events that can be a lot of fun as well. Some of the con's are they are full of drama. You will be inundated with she said this, she said that stories that you frankly won't give a damn about. Everything also seems to become about Greek Life. They also may get wasted on the weekends, every weekend. Obviously, these aren't universal truths, they are just what I found. Also, what I found as a con, you might find as a pro, to each their own. Personally, I found a lot of it to be childish behavior, and I was looking for a woman, not a girl. But, my advice to you is to try it. The worst thing that happens is you spend some time with someone who it doesn't work out with (you are going to run into that anyway).