I recently went out clubbing with a group of mates.. the night started of great dancing with a few girls in the club and eventually dancing with this HB8 for a good few songs.. my mate and i decided to try another club just for a switch up of scenes and ended up getting bounced from the line.. this put me on a real low and i wasnt in the mood the rest of the night.. We opened a two set and i was getting mad IOIs from HB7, i just wasnt in the mood to even game her... my brain was telling me what to do but i just wasnt putting it into action..

I was wondering if you guys ever get into moods like these where you pretty much cbf, and what you do to get out of it?

Thanks Jazz

I get bounced from lines sometimes too because of my pierced ears (just black studs, no diamonds please haha), or because of my shoes/the way I dress. I don't let it phase me, fuck it, i'll go back to my old place or to another club.

Don't let it phase you, then you wont have to deal with your 'mood'. Matter of fact, don't let anything phase you, blown sets, rejections, bad beer, lame friends, itchy ballsack, diarrhea, bad gas, cockblockers, fuck it all, have your own party.

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“Every man dies - Not every man really lives.”

If I’m in a bad mood I usually listen to it instead of trying to fight it. Find somewhere to go and think objectively. You’re mood will pass if you just experience it. Just don’t let a blow out make you talk negatively to yourself. If this happens get a paper and write out your thoughts then rip them up and throw them away because they are garbage. Do some positive affirmations. If all else fails say, “fuck it” and just and be in a bad mood. It happens. Sometimes you’ll find that you can simply tell people you’re in a bad mood and they will listen and cheer you up. I’ve gamed after bad blowouts and just told people what’s been going on and still pulled women. We don’t always have to be high-energy entertainers to have others interested in us. Keep a mantra like “The Problem Lies Outside of Me” and know that there’s nothing wrong with you.

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“You must have inner validation before outer validation serves a purpose”

Thanks Sweet Ideas! Next time ill just say fuck it and move on