hopefully this is the right forum. So basically i'm a severe introvert. Most days it never really occurs to me to go out to public events on my days off. Which of course makes my personal/sex life non-existant. I feel like i need to change that and that bars might be a good way to do this. Especially with there being a little alcohol around.(found out a few years back that i'm a lot social when i'm hammered)

I'm curious if anyone has any advice for my idea? I'm sure some might ask why i don't go with friends, but most of my friends are kinda lame in the sense of going out to places unless it involves cars. And then the my one friend that likes to go to bars is a chubby chaser...err obesey chaser.

Sarging alone is REALLY good for ya, but at the same time it's really hard to really "get in the mood", sometimes I go alone and end up going nowhere or getting nowhere, but if you go alone and get a good game and make a lot of friends and build proper social proof.. knowing you did it alone is REALLY satisfying

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I personally enjoy going out alone. I don't feel the pressure of having friends watching my every move while I talk to a woman, or have the possibility of them throwing me under the bus in the middle of a conversation. It sucks, but its happened. Becoming a regular at the bar down the street worked out well for me as well. I've become friends with everyone that works there and drinks there. I get hooked up on drinks a lot and I've hooked up with a couple of the bartenders on different occasions.

Yeah, this is difficult. Sometimes I tell myself I don't know enough yet, as an excuse to not do it but it is satisfying when you do it and achieve.

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