This is an article i wrote today, would wonder how you guys would view it. Thanks!


Impossible is nothing.


It truly beckons me what this phrase really mean. Is it really true? As long as you believe in something with all your heart, with all your soul, you can overcome any obstacle?
Are there really things which are irreversible? Or is irreversibility a mere mental state that we trap ourselves in because we do not have enough information or simply because at times we make things out to be worse than it really is?

After all, what's the harm in making something to be worse than it really is. Truly it is better than underestimating a problem. Yet, this mindset may prevent us from even bother trying to work towards certain goals of ours.

I'm not going to address the other side of the argument as it is not my point of this post. I'm stuck in a very one-sided mindset now and cannot get out.

Anyway, on track with what I plan to say, is this scenario really impossible to happen already?

I believe, in this case, it has progressed to a rather bad point, perhaps on it's own, perhaps even worst compared to another of higher accomplishment already. This brings up Inner Game.
If i tell myself something is not going to work, it will not work.
Your inner thoughts affects your outer actions. If you think that you are not confident, then your body language will reflect a non-confident one.
Rule number 1: It's not your loss.

So, if you carry around the thought with you that it is impossible to do this, ultimately, you will be lead, demoralized and compelled to act in a way that it is impossible for That to happen. Perhaps, that's how the phrase impossible is nothing came about. It's all in your head. Delusional or not, it does not matter.
Despite this, you can have the strongest belief in the world but if you do not have the correct set of skills to carry it out, you will fail, and vice versa.
Rule two: You are not needy.

It has dawned on me that although it seems that circumstances are against me, i must still hold strong my belief that it can be done. The moment i tell myself to stop, I will stop.
NLP states that inside our head, is a map that we all draw out for ourselves, and tell ourselves that nothing else exists outside this map. However, this map is imaginary and the only thing that prevents us from expanding or looking outside our map is ourselves.
We are guided daily by the questions we ask. When we ask good questions, we are put in good direction.
Questions begs for answers and when we question, we ultimately search our own head for answers. Whether we find it now or later, if we ask the right questions, we will automatically direct ourselves correctly.

For example, instead of asking "When is this going to be done?" you can ask " What am i going to get out from this when it is over?"

Instead "Why is she such a bitch?" you can ask "What's wrong with me that made her act this way?"
Rule three: I have a wide range of options in how i choose to react to people. The choice is mine.

Here comes to the main point of my dissection.
The reason why i am writing this, whether it be true or not is because of a very great dilemma within myself on what one should do in this circumstance.

School Game:
Inside the school circle, there are different levels of knowing people.
First, totally no knowledge about a person's existence
Second, brief knowledge about a person's existence
Third, occasional contact with a person- phone/MSN
Fourth, social circle
i) Target's circle

It must be noted that in a circle, everybody knows everything, and word spreads very quickly. This can be used to your advantage or your disadvantage. This can either raise your value or devalue you.
Since word spreads very fast about what happens and everybody knows everything, you can either be introduced as the guy who I've Been Telling You About, or you can be classified as That Bastard That I Met The Other Day. It can either skyrocket or pummel your value.

Never try to target more than 1 person in the social circle. You get labeled as a flirt.
Also, if one person in the social circle is going after someone, high chance is that another will not chase you too.
I suppose every interaction that people have is to achieve a specific purpose. When a guy talks to a female, he either wants, sex, or a relationship. Rarely is it ever platonic, unless you've become good friends and maintain that for support for one another.

It would seem to be a more plausible theory that when you pick up girls in school, you do not really go for the sex, but instead more for the relationship. Then again, i might be wrong. Different people have different goals in life.
Rule four: The past cannot be relieved. Good or bad?

Working on the assumption that your target has a bad impression of you, i would think that it is possible that by getting to know her social circle might help to change her impression of you to that of a higher value. The importance of it is that, if you go up to her and say, I'm not this and i'm not that, she will think that you are merely trying to qualify yourself and that you are arrogant (in some cases if you go to the extent of showing how you are not that, and how good you actually are). But if her friends or people she trust tells her about how good you are, there is a much higher chance of her actually believing it. And i really mean MUCH GREATER CHANCE.
I'm pretty sure this has happened to you before. I'm not sure if this is a relevant example, but if someone told you that a girl was pretty, she automatically suddenly has a greater appeal to you. The expectation is set, and you will find or convince that that is so.

Perhaps, sometimes, the idea is not to tackle the target head on, but instead to take an indirect approach. Not approaching her indirectly as in trying not to convey your interest in her, but indirectly in the sense that use other people as a mean to raise your value and to help you create opportunities even without their knowledge of themselves doing so!

It is also important that you do not screw up in a social circle, as once you're out, there is no more way back.

One question arises: In a school/closed environment, is it worth the risk to become the 'weird' one or the one who's so sexual? Never shit where you eat.
Rule five: Be the prize.

*Emotions fuck you up. Don't listen to them, they so often mislead you. Follow the game plan, and you might just win.

I think that's about it.
Rule Six: Be nonchalant