Quick background info, I'm a college student in a very tight knit greek system. There's basically 4 frats and 4 sororities that mix w/ each other every week (separate parties obviously).

We get back from break and first nite mix with a sorority. The hottest girl I know (literally) is in this sorority and I'm of course one of the few thats on talking terms with her. She obviously has a bf. I walk in, say hi to a bunch of people, doing my thing and she comes up to me with a big smile on her face says hi gives me a hug and a kiss. We chat, I move on and enjoy the party. We run into each other once more in the party talk for a little then she just kinda disappeared as I didn't see her again.

2 nights later we have a real crazy mixer with the same sorority. Again, I walk in, I'm doing my thing. She comes up to me says hey, we're talking. I got kino going. I'm teasing her, making her laugh it's going well. I mingle some more, we find each other again. Same shit again, just talking, teasing, kino. Something that I remember specifically was that a few times she would grab my face with palm facing me (playfully) and I'd quickly defuse that. She was def being playful and what not with me, she teased me by lettin me know she was drinking beer that I had left at her place once and had a bunch in her purse. Later on in the mixer, I see her friend dancing w/ my boy and her dancing w/ them kind of so I go over grab her and start dancing w/ her. We're grinding, then i start spinning her around and what not to keep it fun. Get back to grinding, she's gettin into it gettin low and everything. I'm just thinking wow, I cannot believe how well this is going with this girl right now. After that I was just doing my thing, saw her dancing out of the corner of my eye with anotehr one of my boys then didn't see her again.

Saturday I text her teasing her about something that happened the night things went well. It was my birthday so I told her I better see her at the bar and that she better like tequila. She said I don't like tequila but for ur bday def. Didn't wind up seeing her that night.

Sunday night we had a night of just the boys drinking. A few girls from that sorority came, she was one of them. We're in the middle of a drinking game, she sees me across the table gives me a smile and says heyy babe with a little wave. I acknowledge her and continue playing. Games over, I talk to my boys, go say hello to all the girls. I'm talking to some girl and she comes over says hello again and teases me again about drinking my beer still. We talk pretty shortly, I tease her a little, she laughs, maybe some kino but dont remember. I'm talking to other girls and what not, and want to approach her a few times but she's either talking to one of my boys or I just can't think of things to say (which happens with me sometimes, how can I fix this?) In retrospect I probably could have gone up to her and just said soo whats up and conversation would have started from there but w/e. I think I caught her looking at me a few times throughout the night but can't be sure, I probably should have tried to make eye contact and give her a smile to see. Throughout the nite we briefly interact a few times, at one point she grabs my hand while looking at me all smiley and starts to spin so I go aright I'll play with you a little and give her a few spins. Then once again I see her friend dancing with my boy and her kinda dancing with them (people were not dancing, it was just a small get together type situation) so I again go over, grab her and dance w/ her. Grind a little, spin around a little, back to grinding then all of a sudden she either goes "hold on" or just walks away and goes over to her friend and starts dancing w/ her, I was just kinda like wtf. I walk over to my friend and this girl I had hooked up with a few times and they're just laughing at me and I'm pretty sure I just said what i don't care or something like that but I don't really remember. The girl then decided to rub it in and say go hang out with hb10 go. Eventually the girls left to go to the bar and I don't remember if she said bye or not.

Wtf is going on here? Things went sooo well tuesday and thursday night, then she disses me sunday night... weird? I feel like it's been a lot of teasing and regular talk and not much emotional connection talk, but how can I go about initiating that in a party hard SPAM? I feel like I can't get a good read on her interest, what some things I should try/be looking for? My games pretty solid but with her I've found myself unsure. Any ideas where to go from here, what things to try and the such? THANKS!

Ha ha ha ha!!!

This brings back a lot of memories. Thanks for the story.

The "hot chick" of the sorority has a lot on her plate. She's got to REPRESENT the sorority. This means that she needs to be LOVED by EVERYBODY. The entire sorority is relying on her to bring it some positive energy(cock) towards the house. She's the marketing puppet. Once you're "hooked", you're done and she's off to the next. She does what she did with you to EVERYBODY on campus.

If you want to get with this girl, be the leader of your fraternity. Or be the guy who won't give any "love" until his cock is sucked. (Crazy ass backwards weirdos always find other crazy ass backward weirdos)

yeaa I know you're very experienced and what not but I'm fairly sure that's not the deal. We chill with these girls regardless of her. She doesn't know anybody in my pledge class except me and one other guy. As far as I've noticed she doesn't even talk to a lot of the other guys in my frat except for a few. So with that, could I get some actual helpful advice I could take in and then use to better my chance of success? Thanks again!

If this is your definition of "soooooo well", then how do you define getting your cock sucked and having your asshole rimmed out while she screams, "I love it, I love it . . ."?

I get that you're not so experienced but still. . . have some perspective. If you want to game this girl, DO IT. Don't sit there like some idiot doing NOTHING, and "grading" her game. This won't do anything for you. If you want her, GAME HER. That's the point.

So there are a couple of things that stick out for me.

From what you've written, it seems that she likes you.
You also mentioned that she has a bf. OK, so here you are mixing in with her friends, and she's mixing in with yours?

From where I'm sitting, it seems like people would soon think she's a slut if she starts hooking up with you on the dance floor. You need to bounce to some other location with her - anywhere where she's not going to feel like a slut for wanting you.

She's also just put herself in power by walking away from you - I don't know what's going on there - maybe just her slut defense coming in, or maybe you're just too drunk and not being discrete enough with her.

I feel that if she made you look like an idiot, you should let her know (not in a way that makes you look like a loser or an asshole), but just enough to make it clear that you're not going to be fucked about.

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Could you give me an example of how I should go about letting her know that? Thanks

You know what, seems to me that both the guys are right.

You need to game her but you need to isolate her... but make this last attempt your best... Game her, conversation... see if you can hold it... then say lets go for a walk or lets go pick something up from my place... or whatever excuse you can use to get you two alone... then your free to kiss close at the best point... if she rejects you flat out then you know the score is clear.

Personally i think kasabi is right about her being high status and taking what she wants.

you could tell her that you thought you were both getting along, but you don't know if you can trust her anymore. When she asks why, say that she tried to make you look like an idiot, and that that's not cool. (Don't discuss further, the point isn't to argue about it, but to make yourself the better person i.e. DHV)

If she does like you, then you should be able to effectively get her to try to 'make it up to you' - which you could then use as a bounce to a more private location

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Any progress since the last post?

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