This is one area where i literally go by the book with Mystery.

The attraction bridging into comfort.

I've got a friend who recently became interested in the art of pickup, he's a decent looking guy, so we went out one night and he was wing. and the shock of the whole Neg Theory, was taken too far by my friend.

so this is what i've noticed..

When negging, the response should be laughter. They should be thrown like little pebbles. if you are constantly ripping on the HB, she will be more likely to slap you than laugh. I think additionally, a neg should be also supplemented by either a small IOI, or some sort of neutralizer if she jumps through the hoop to qualify.

I do rip on chicks relentlessly, but i've got it down to a science, to where it's still playful.. Though my friend was meaning to be playful, it was just neg neg neg neg neg, set blow out, all night. we didn't really have time to talk about it in field, but at some point, even in the attraction phase, you have to show a LITTLE interest, not sexual or physical interest, but just as to treat the HB as a human, give her the food out of your hand.. you know?

once you bridge into comfort, the negs should about 90% stop. You keep the interest by conversation, and DHV's.

Point is, I'm a huge fan of busting chops, and negs.. they are the FASTEST way to build attraction. But you have to know when to throw them, how hard to throw them, and most importantly, when NOT to throw them. This is something I see a lot of with guys at clubs, or parties.

which is fine by me.. I'll swoop in and play the nice guy card for once.. finally!

Any thoughts?