ya, sounds really difficult to me. i dated a girl for about a year long-distance. we did visit each other many times and had a strong relationship. i moved to where she lived and we lived together about a month. i had a hard time finding a job there, and she had little trust in me over girls that would text or call me. anyways, we split. i moved. we would get in IM arguements and then get along well. she got pissed i went to visit some old friends, which some were girls and said she was moving on and going on a date with a guy. so rebound guy comes along and then about 2 weeks later her new FB status is in a relationship. its been a few days now and i havent said anything to her or acknowledge the new FB status. i really want her back and am ok with it being with time. i would be willing to move back and work stuff out too, but when do i talk to her again and how should i act to be cool enough for her to want me back? i know she still wants me, but is trying to move on.

Chances are she is happy with the new guy. Quit being selfish and move on. Don't destroy relationships because you cannot find your own.

Agreed.

And in addition to that if she is whinging at you for seeing girl friends then she sounds like a waste of time to me.

I didn't even want to read the content of your post. I read your heading and my suggestion is to save yourself all that time, money and energy and quit thinking about her. But if you want to still play with her mind and mess around without you investing emotionally than lets talk.