I think ussually before i get into attraction i like comfort more because im more laid back, but dont like to just, you know, talk to much, if im listening too much is that a problem? conclusive in her own words "your different your not like other guys, you listen" HB10 btw.

It's not a problem if you listen to her a lot, you just need to make sure you steer the conversation you know? Interrupt her sometimes with a question or steer the conversation every now and then. You dont need to do all the talking to 'own' a conversation

Give her some feedback, then you wont seem like you listen too much.

Listen away, but yes, do interrupt occasionally and steer the conversation, take control. Also, look her straight in the eye and respond to what she's saying subtly with your facial expressions & BL.

ALLOW HER TALK HERSELF INTO YOUR BED !! - Go figure

Listening isn't a bad thing. If all you do is talk, then it isn't a conversation, it's a monologue/lecture, and that's boring for everyone else in the "conversation"; trust me, you aren't that interesting. What everyone else before me seems to be saying is: actively listen, not passively. Passive listening is when you just sit there with a dumb ass look on your face, looking like your trying to bore a hole through their head with your eyes, and interjecting monosyllabic words,"Yeah, Cool, Ohh, etc" . When you actively listen, you ask follow up up questions, "That's cool, how does that work?" Ask the right question, at the right time, and you can steer the conversation anywhere you want.

there is this rule in salling that says you start with the tounge and finish with youre ear

wich means that you talk first (show her that youre interesting) and then you give HER the chance to talk and make you feel she is interesting

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