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okay , all this HB rating system , building kino , rapport blah blah blah is just distorting our view of girls . In my opinion it just complicates our interactions with girls forcing us to do too much when we get the chance.
Girls are complicated creatures. Kino? Its used because if you like the girl you would like to touch her, It is just acting out the instinct in a subtle way to get the girl used to your touch. VERY important tool. Rapport? Try building a relationship with a girl without comfort. If she isnt comfortable talking to you/being with you, what makes you think that she will stick around for a long time? The HB rating system? I cant say anything new about it without sounding like a broken record.
Common sense is the most important tool in a PUAs arsenal. Common sense is the collection of personal experiences that dictate direction in your world. Some men havent had experience with women or are missing general life experiences, so not all of them can fall back on this tool.
These opinion openers are canned material for a man to fall back on If his mind freezes up, which some puas experience in the beggining. The opinion opener is simply a line that you put faith on, it gets the job done.
Some people need to learn to program themselves to be alpha, not everyone reading an alpha thread is spending forever on the computer, many of us go into the field.
Text game is a different creature, to my experience the first few texts are the most important and pave the way for the rest of the conversation. Its like making a first impression, it needs to count.
By all means do what works for you, everyone has their own style. You cant deny results.