so i just started at a new college and on my first night out i hooked up with an girl from my floor at an off campus party (i was tipsy, she was completely sober). we started making out. i went to the bathroom upstairs...she followed but we got interrupted. her friends and my friends all left together (time span ~ 1hr) but i left with my friends she left with hers. i told her to call me when she got to my room. she came to my room (my roommate was there but was passed out) she gave me head. i gave her 4 deep spot orgasms. i went for the condom but she said she just met me so i was just like whatever cuz she gave great head. she gave me head again then she went to her room.

she was in my first class then we got breakfast. went back to her room i gave her another deep spot orgasm this time she said "thanks" lol. then she gave me head.

so my question is how can i keep her as just a fuck buddy and nothing serious. my problem is she lives on my floor and she's in my class 3 times a week. so ill prob see her often and i don't want her freaking out if she sees me with another girl or if i don't hook up with her all the time

any help is welcome

I think that in the pick up game honesty is highly over looked. Most girls will realize that you are in college and want to have fun. However some of them wont. While this girl maybe good looking and you have "fun" with her. I would just tell her that while you have alot of fun with her you enjoy being single and don't want anything serious. There is a few way's she can react to this.

She may.

A. No longer be interested in you.

B. Still be interested in you and try and sway you.

C. Still be interested in you and alright with the fact that you like being single.

However by addressing the problem you will avoid a lot of drama if she reacts in either B. or C. because you told her from the jump what you wanted. You have to realize that this girl lives on your floor and attends the same classes as you do. So she most likely knows a lot of people that you know or will know. The last thing you need is some girl talking poorly about you because you lied to her about what you wanted out of your relationship. Worse case scenario she no longer wants to fool around with you... but I bet ship will still retain respect for you and wont bad mouth you. Hope this helped.

Alias

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Thanks, Alias.

Don't bring it up and keep the vibe playful. If you feel the conversation being taken in that direction, just say "Look, I'm a bit of a player". Most girls will actually respond well to this, and if you're at a new school you can throw that into the explanation. You don't want to be tied down at the moment. Just because I'm feeling in a writing mood, if she ever brought up having a relationship, I'd say the following (not advised unless you are versed in SS, other guys who are might like this. This is following the 'new school' comment...)

"You know, starting something new can be exciting, especially if you're passionate about it. It's like you're opening up to a new direction (nude erection) that you really want to take inside. With me, thats how I see things. On the one hand (hold left hand out like you're holding something) you have this exciting, passionate, and adventurous energy, and you can feel that. And in the other hand (hold out other hand) you realize that its something fun and to be taken lightly, because you shouldn't take it so seriously (bring the two hands together, essentially bringing the two ideas into one). Anyway, if you could go anywhere where time an money were no object, where would you go and what would you do...?"

- M

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