hi there,

i have a question, im currently gaming 2 girls. and i am very close to get laid with one of them. and as a guy, is that what i want, but after that?

i dont want a relasionship, because in a few monts im going to work in china for 5 months, and there are alot of students there.
how should i tell them? i dont want to be know as a player. who only does one night stands, how should i tell them?

i thought of a story.
just be honest. tell them that im going to china, and i dont want to go there in a relasionship because i am afraid i do some wrong things.

but what do you guys do after getting laid. are you really staying with this girl or not?

sorry if my english is bad, im in a hurry, have to go back to class. thanks m8's

Just make sure to give her all the information. You don't have to spell it out that you don't want them for a relationship but you can do it another way.

I'd say something to the girl like, "I really like you but I want to make sure you understand I'm not out for anything serious just yet. If I met the right girl then who knows..but also I'm leaving for China in a few months so that's part of the reason."

At that point she'll know what she is getting into and she can make an adult decision to whether or not she goes to that next level sleeping with you. As long as you are up front about what you want or don't want then it will work out. Nothing more will have to be said cause she already knows.

Best of luck,

~Jon

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jsmooths advice is very good deffinitly take it

i would personally do something similar. i would be honest but pull a MLTR on them/her. something like "before we get to serious i want you to know im leaving soon...we can have great fun tell then and do all sorts of things (name stuff you both like, include sex of some sort or any sex joke you guys might have) but i need to know if you will be ok with me leaving, if you arnt ok with this i really feel like we shouldnt see each other so it wont hurt when i leave to china"

thats a natural adam lyons style, but its fit to the situation you have. make sure if you do something like this you really understand what you are going to say, this is key, if you mess it up a little she might think that you mean something different like you dont like her, so make sure you show interest, then cut the interest when you explain that if she cant handle it she should leave. this will show the fun side as positive and other side (her leaving) as negative. and she wont want to leave

hope this is helpful, its just the way i would do things mate

mR.e

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