Wasup guy's Karas here and im stuck, I mean I know how to open,dhv and even neg
(still working on that last part but im getting there).I just don't know how to phase shift from that fun interesting guy to the quiet listener who ask the good get to know you question's and rapport builder.


For instance last friday, I was at a small house party with my wing p hyuga were I meet a cute HB8.I opened, dhv'ed I think a little to much because I almost fell into a case of dancing monkey, for instance, at one point in the conversation she kept demanding we play more games because I had played the 5 question's game with her.

So I said to her, hold up now this conversation is supposed to be 50 50 is there something you can teach me ( thank's style) and she did'nt so I froze her out a little bit.She then challenged me to a game of slapsy so I played.

I tried some fluff talk with her you know like what she want's to do with her life and how she knew the host of the party but, just could,nt or did'nt know how to build a emotional connection you know comfort.


Number closed so there's still time. So any help would be most appreciated.