If you could spare a couple minutes to help out the AFC.. I somehow got this girl, who is extremely attractive. Like model hot. She is stupid and immature though, and extremely popular... I have too many fears, many of them irrational. I feel like I can't provide enough, and I am slowly losing any connection we had, because I don't know what appeals to her. She talks to EVERY guy in the area, literally, which makes me extremely insecure. She is becoming a tease, and constantly makes excuses not to hang out. I had a kiss close with her about a couple months ago, and from there we talked frequently. Not really deep conversations, but small talk. The kind of bs you'd spit to a person sitting next to you on the bus, just to pass time, cheap laughs that mean nothing. I could continue giving you my life story on the issue, but what I really want to know... Is how do you escalate from a simple hello, to a deep, emotional conversation? I want to reestablish the relationship we had. I'm sick of being just an attractive face who is bland, and want to give her reasons to want to hang out, that she is missing out on me. Am I getting hung up on this girl when I should move on? Is there any topic I could bring up which would spark attraction? Any specific routines, suggestions, etc. are greatly appreciated

Move on, no use wasting time on unresponsive girls especially when your not getting into deep convo's

Freeze her out. Get to know her friends and have a good time with them - peer group approval, then when you guys finally hang out be verbally cold but kino escalate.

This would not get her to jump in bed with you but by the time you get that point you'd have already figured out how to move forward. Otherwise, come back to the forum again