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PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 3:09 pm 
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So I finally hooked up with the hottest chick from high school, about almost four years after high school now; we have had amazing sex multiple times but yet now...I feel like I'm losing her. She's leaving for school in less than a month and since we're only dating I wanted to take things further. But these past few days following her period, she has been going on about how depressed she is, how she is reading this fucking book called Breaking Dawn that depicts how love is and how she thinks it should be, and making me feel like I'm not giving her that, and then she will tell me she doesn't want a boyfriend and that she doesn't believe in love (and honestly, I don't even know how the fuck girls throw this type of shit into a conversation because I didn't even ask her)...and its really pissing me the fuck off because if I knew she was going to be like this then I would not have had sex with her. So what do I do now? Her phone's always ringing off the hook from other guys, I think she might be seeing someone else on the side because I'll call her and then she won't return my call for like three hours.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 3:51 pm 
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This is a tough one and yo;u might find that your instincts are as much right as they are wrong. Basically it seems to me she might be trying to end things but doing so in an easy sort of way. You can try and re-frame yourself by freezing her out a bit although this is a really tough option to do.

By doing this you will just seem cold and distant with her in order to realise that you dont give a shit (although you do). Another option could be to end it first.

At the end of the day i dont know the situation so I can only go from what you have said and I may be totally wrong

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 4:46 pm 
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She's a young pretty kid going off to school. She's going to (and already getting) hit on left and right from rich guys, tall guys, short guys, athletic guys, funny guys, guys with fat cocks, skinny cocks, foreign guys, the dude from the local 7/11, the creepy hairy dude from the smoke shop, the traveling sales rep wearing a 200 suit at the local bar, etc, etc . . .

Well you do the math. On the one hand, she has all this^^. On the other hand, she's got this grumpy kid who thinks he deserves something because he fucked her a few times.

Have some self respect. You're the only "problem" in this equation.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 4:38 am 
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I think the problem is this stupid PUA world that says you gotta use game to make a girl love you. You know how I started dating her guys, really? We went to eat at a restaurant as friends, then when we were about to go back to studying together I asked her to give me her hand, she did, and as I held it I told her the truth, I said this: "I really like you. Can I please have a kiss?"...and it worked. No game involved, and it felt great because I didn't have to be a cocky prick I'm not.

To be honest, we hung out today and had a great time, and we also talked about a lot of diverse subjects and shared some great conversations. I feel better now. I only get grumpy when I'm being ignored but after many experiences like this I've become passive to these things, and it helps venting it here. When the date today ended she stole my CD from the car, so I took one of her favorite rings for collateral.


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