So I have known a girl for a little over six years now, and about four years ago I moved away. We kept in touch about twice a year and she used to call me her best friend blah blah but i went and saw her after about three years and she has defiantly developed. So now I am interested and I want to know a way to f-close without having her want to date. Any suggestions?

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sorry bout the edit people, but i forgot to say when we have been talking or hanging out in the past few months she completely stopped calling me best friend and i feel it is safe to say i am out of the friends zone. So i guess what i was really asking is what is the best way to keep her as a friend and yet have sex or do anything without her wanting to become my girlfriend. or in other words, friends with benefits. I apologize, this may seem like a very 'beginner' question or may just be an awkward question all together. but then again a am truly new to all of this and just seeing what works and what does not. Any help is greatly appreciated!

Just ask if she wants to be friends with benefits? Maybe she's thinking it too!