Facebook CLOSING, but keeps FLAKING! HELP!!



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badsid
PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 2:29 am 
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I have been running direct game first i was going through the pain phase, like strait rejections, and walk awayz ! but recently have facebook closed 3-4 girlz, like they have been putting their full names on my cell phone, but when i send friend requests, all four of have them have never added me nor reply my messages on facebook !! its really frustrating, are they just being nice ?!? or they change their minds afterwards ! what can be the cause ?!?
If anybody can help me out that would be really awesome !!

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Bloodmuffin
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do they also give you numbers while putting their names on your phone?
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no i actually ask them for a facebook/email kinda thing ! i dont know why i just cant for numbers like that !
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face book close is easy way out for a girl because its some type of closure for the guy. kick the facebook idea go for the number.

but first we need more details on your approaches and your interactions to help you. sounds like not enough attraction, pre mature facebook close, no comfort is built.

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Yea just after my direct approach, and name exchange...i m not creating any kind of rapport or anything ...just going for a pre mature facebook close,,by sayin "gimme ur fb, ill message ya there" something along those lines..they usually end up giving like i said but never accepts the friends request/reply messages !..i guess i have to create comfort/rapport then go for a # close or facebook..!
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Wow.....have you been reading any pua material? Have you even read lethal weapon's post? Don't bother facebook closing always go for numbers and dont directly ask for a number without having future fun plans.
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Facebook close is a TERRIBLE idea.

everything that happends online isn't real.

normal people get phone numbers, so should you.

you might add them to facebook afterwards, but for now you should consider it a no-go.
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IMO, numbers are more personal.

These HB 9, wen i tried to number close, one rejected me straight up, other prob felt sorry for me, and she said have u got facebook or myspace, i told her my name, so she could add me -.- no add, so...dont bother, even if i had her name for facebook, and added she prob reject it, or pretend she doesnt exist lol...

numbers ftw :}
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facebook close is a TERRIBLE idea

i totally agree! who the hell came out with that? its an easy way out for girls and a guy who is to scared to number close. as soon as you add them they are going to think "oh yeah, that's that random guy who came up to me"
Number closing is the way to go.
however if you want to facebook close , whatever that is, you want to concentrate on your game. if they aren't accepting you you clearly aren't demonstrating enough value.

i don't know what openers your using but an opinion opener would be good. and then what is ESSENTIAL, which i think is your problem whatever close you use, use a time constraint! USE A TIME CONSTRAINT! i think they are worried the only way they can get away from this weirdo is to give them their name. by using a time constraint it means they stop worrying so much about getting away cause you will be gone soon.

Earn some value by doing a few games with her. after the opener and then going on about how "has anything like this happened to her" you can say "im bored do you wanna play a quick game". use either, the lieing game, black game or, a magic trick.


that should sort you out


Good luck.
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sorry about the massive qoute :)
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Firstly try to avoid fb closing, try get her digits and call it there and then to make sure its legit. Fb in my opinion isn't a good way to close a set, because the girl could give her name to you to end communication and when you go home and add her, she can just press the ignore button, and that's it, you probably won't see her again too.

If you number close and are in communication for a while by calling and texting, facebook close later, that's what I aim to do, and has worked. I try to avoid giving women my fb now that I wana be a pua on, it can get me into dodgy situations...
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