Hey,
I had an interesting experience at work yesterday. I work with some very beautiful girls at a bank; we had this customer come in at around three and I would say he seemed to have one of the most impressive inner games I have seen in a man. He was very confident, cocky but not overdoing it, and funny too. To top it off he happened to be not bad looking, and he's rich. I thought the girls were lapping up his banter and must have found him very attractive. When he were left they were all talking about how much they hated him, saying they couldn't stand people that were so full of themselves, and how he worshipped himself! I am 100% sure he is what Deangello is describing when he says you need to be cocky and funny - didn't work for this guy!

I usually never believe a word out of a woman's mouth . especially when they talk about what they like and hate about a guy. It is like when a girlfriend complains about their boyfriend but what they complain about is usually what attracts them in the first place.

I agree. Despite what the girls said, I bet had he asked for any of their numbers he would have gotten it.

Good point

Maybe they DID mean it. Maybe he might have been "cocky/funny" from your perspective, since you've read DavidD's stuff, and maybe that fact altered your perception of value. But maybe from their point of view, he was actually just being a total jackass.

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

definatly agreed

and another thing

being just cocky funny is not enough, you need to emotionally stimulate women at some point

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