Howdy,

Ok, so I've got a hot foreigner living in my lounge for the next probably 2 weeks.

I've DHV'd already, but I feel like I've been acting as a really good host, and that she hasn't really done anything to deserve it, so she feel's like her value is raised (if that makes sense?)

I guess as I'm writing this, I realise that I should probably neg her a little. I'm also planning on getting more kino going - through getting her to try to teach me how to dance, and going out with her on the weekend to the clubs.

I'm probably doing alright, but it'd be good to get some other people's ideas.

Anyone know some good kino tricks - subtle ones?

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first of all WOW a new zealand pua? i was born there but moved to australia 5 years ago... what is the community like over there?
anyways in regards to the kino, when youve got a long time with a girl i think the best thing you can do is kino ping.
this is what i did with a girl i work with. what you need to do is make sure you guys are comfortable around each other to the point where you can have "pretend" arguements. the way i did this was say she would walk into me or move something of mine, and i would call her a bitch or a punk or whatever you feel comfortable with followed by a push or a punch in the arm or something.
hopefully she will punch you back or push you or whatever... the main thing is you start it with some verbal argueing and then move to where you start hitting and pushing each other etc. it gets to a point where you can be pinning her up against the wall or whatever you want because she will be that comfortable with your touch.
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS YOU ARE JOKING... if she doesnt than you may get a TERRIBLE reaction.

Cool idea

PUA is a thing that me and a close mate got into, so I haven't actually met any other people in NZ doing it...

Doing a quick google there is http://www.wellingtonlair.com/ - which is no good for me seeming I'm in Christchurch, and then there's http://www.pickupartist.co.nz

I guess it'd be good to contact the Welly people - I'm off there in about a month.

How's Aussie and the PUA scene??

I only got into PUA a few months ago when I came out of a 5 year relationship - I'm finishing my masters, so haven't had much time for it recently, but I feel like I'm making progress.

I think I'll give the playgument a go - I'd rate this girl about HB 8 or maybe slightly higher - she's pretty damn cute!

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Thought you guys might like to know that our guest is now sleeping in my bed

I've dhv'd heaps and heaps, didn't know if she liked me all that much though. So I told her that I really liked her, but felt strange about it because she's a guest in my house.

She told me that she liked me too, then I asked what she'd say if I asked her if she'd like a kiss.

She said that I should try and find out.

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reading your first post I was thinking... wtf? kino, taking your time? be more direct...

then I read your last post...

good job lad