Ok. My first problem in a long time, and also my first Older Woman.

Situation:

I work at a local gym, therefore I see alot of pretty girls and beautiful women everyday of my life. I am not usually the type to mix sexual relations with any of my customers at the gym, but I found an interesting sexual attraction towards an older woman age: 28. I started casual, gave the usual opener and follow up and then closed with a number and a second meeting.

It was nothing special, I picked her up at her house and took her to go see a movie and eat dinner. However, during the movie she was dry despite any attempt at the simplest Kino. To the point where she began to text on the phone throughout the movie(Which was the suckiest movie I've ever seen). The night ends with me taking her home nothing happening after.

I saw her at the gym two days after, and like a mature adult she went about it like nothing ever happened. Then little by little I started paying no attention to her and she started to talk to me again. I, being myself, commenced with the usual flirting and even some Kino at the gym. The result was HER asking ME out to a movie. My response to her was simple,"Yeah sure, just let me know".

This weekend she did not contact me, nor I her...

Any suggestions??

Older women are apparently more patient.

She's showing you she's still interested, but that doesn't mean you don't have to control things.

I wouldn't do a movie. Bring her somewhere you can talk instead.

Assuming that you're at least 21, meet up for drinks. Taking an older woman to a movie sounds pretty tactless if you ask me.

I'm kinda seeing a 28 year old, myself, and I'm 20. Drinking age is 18 here, though. When I first met her, it was at a bar and I knew I had to sexualize things from the get-go. Meet up for drinks with her so you can have an excuse to shift your frame from casual to sexual by using sexual state and innuendos.

definatly

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