I was gaming a HB8 last night at a friends house party. but first a little background about the girl.

she is a friend I had asked her out in the past (about 4 months ago), before knowing about the game. She said yes, but was really stuck-up and flaky (not replying to texts, cancelling at the last minute, ect.) i know now its because i didn't play the game right. she was so flaky we ended up falling out over it, about a week ago we made up as friends over facebook.

Now, last night i was at a friends house party, and we started talking and it was like the falling out never happened and she was no longer stuck-up but very open, and we talked for most of the night. just for fun as she attractive, even more so now she was more open about thing, i decided to try the game as im still newish, i wouldn't take it as far as kino (so as not to ruin our friendship).

however she initiated kino by holding hands while we were talking, and i was doing push/pull with the hand holding.

we were both staying over the night at my friends in the living room, which we had to ourselfs, we laid next to each other, the held hands, then started making out, which then lead to sex.

The sex was good, with no LMR. earlier she was talking about not having one night stands, and that she doesn't like them, i agreed and said sex should be between two people who have a connection and she agreed to that.

in the morning, no-one else knew what happened, there was no affection between me and this girl (kissing hand holding) however, there was also no awkwardness, it was still easy to talk and laugh with her. she left my mates after breakfast she got a lift with her friend, i stayed, then i left came home and straight on here to ask for the masters advice on my next steps as i really like this girl.

Thanks in advance

First things first congrats my fellow player...Your on the right path if you wish to maintain a relationship with this girl you must continue your seduction by setting up dates and get togethers as adventures with a few prescripted memorized qoutes and lines thrown in... Remember seduction is strategic...You tell a girl something interesting she'll say thats interesting...You tell her 3 things that are interesting she'll say your interesting...One key thing that you should do next time with a girl before having sex what are the expectations that both of you want out of your relationship... BE HONEST at this point...It will save alot of havic whether you want multiple sex partners or just single relationship sit and think what you really want and dont settle for less....In this game the sky is the limit aim for the moon, so if you shoot and miss you'll still be amongst the stars...Need any more advice holla at your boy...

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Thanks Valentino, i'm seeing her this friday and Saturday (she's having a house party on saturday) i wanted to meet with her before the party to discuss the expectations of the relationship, so there's nothing uncertain at the party. thanks again

I say you don't have to discus anything, just enjoy the ride and let it grow if you want it, or leave it as an affair, you should first understand what you want...

enjoy the ride

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I think in this situation i do have to discuss it streetlight, we have the same social circle, and i am friends with parents and parents friends. at the party on Saturday, i dont want either come on to needy or act like an asshole for not "being with her" if that makes sense. Without the talk on friday it will require ALOT of calibration on saturday, basicly almost starting from scratch, if i go to the party with us both knowing what we want that will make the night much more easy and enjoyable for both of us, since we were friends 1st, although we had falling out before, it is really easy to talk to her, so the "discussion" on friday will easy and us both knowing our situation on saturday will make it much easier

Thats whats up be real to this game and the game will be real to you...I promise you that...

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I appreciate the help guys this community is amazing.

We are going for coffee on friday, i think i can bounce it to another location, is this a good idea? i'm going up town today, have to run some errands so i'm going to look for some good bounce locations, so i'm prepared, but our town is pretty lame so it might be a challenge lol