Hi Everyone

this is my first post on this board & what i want really is to get some advice on this girl i met on the weekend but i guess first i should just give you all some background info.

basically i dont really know alot about all this pua stuff ive just been playing girls since i was probably about 13 now im 27, from the age of like 13 or so i would go out playing girls during the day in places like romford & watford town centre & at that age id probably pull ( kiss ) anything between 5 to 15 girls a day & as i got older probably about 16 id start going clubbing around london as i live in central london ( proper cockney lol ) and not bragging or anything like that but ive slept with well over a hundred easy so i dont have problems meeting woman or anything like that but ive just come out of a long term relationship which kinda drained me & changed me into a more mellow person not so interested in just banging random birds.

Well now im single again i wanted that too change so i hit the town with afew friends pulled some girls etc and lifes become abit like the old days when i was a proper casanova, but then this one girl through alittle curve ball in & its left me baffled again & this is where some advice is needed.

I added this random girl on facebook which i have one friend in common with a stripper friend of mine from school, well the girl accepted me & she looked decent in her pics nothing special but a good 6 or weak 7 well the first thing she said to me when i added her was "WHO ARE YOU" exactly like that lol to which i replied i just noticed we had a friend in common & i thought she decent & my be as interesting as she looked" well that had her hooked & we chatted for a day or so then early saturday she sent me 2 pics to my phone from hers one was normal but she looked alot hotter than on facebook now an 8 then the second was her doing glamour modeling ( proper filthy pic ) to which i replied i liked the normal one better well that hooked her i think & she replied saying i should go upto her that night.

Needless to say i drove upto her place that night & within half an hour of being there i asked for a massage which then led to her having one too from me then somehow that turned to her giving me a bj then jumping ontop of me etc etc i mean ive had lots & lots of girls & this girl was only 22 im 27 yet she was the most wild woman ive ever met & when i was looking at her naked i couldnt believe me luck she had these 2 sexy tattoes, one on each arse cheek & she was just nuts in bed so wild i couldnt even write some of the things she did lol well for the rest of the night we were at it like rabbits & then morning then i left.

but it got abit complicated the following night as we spoke she was saying she worked still but in a escort agency on the phones yet i got this funny feeling shes a high class pro cause that was just too good & she had been saying things like she usually goes for older guys like 40 plus & she was pretty well off too by the looks of things but then cause i started questioning her abit as it made me feel abit funny, then things got abit awkward & we had alittle argument cause basically i think she uses sex to get what she wants & basically things just got abit serious way too quick & it kinda scared us both now i got a text of her today saying to call her at 7 tonight & im not sure how to play this as upto the night i met her i was playing her & all of a sudden i feel shes playing me now.

Any advice appreciated

Cheers fellas

ok dude what u need to do is just maintain ur frame i.e. act as if nothing happened. pretend everything is ezactly the same as it was before. it will only be awkward if ur thinkin "man this is gunna be awkward" but if u have the frame that says "im in control and what happened doesnt phase me" not only does this show her you are higher value but it will put her in a comfortable mindset aswell.

what an just not say anything about what happened?

what if she brings it up which i think may happen?

as i think shes expecting me to call her later an the first thing she probably thinks im going to say is sorry for being abit of a dick an asking so many questions, as now i can see by asking all the questions i was coming over like some jealous bf which i imagine shes had alot off in her work?

its a hardone cause im sure she likes me quite abit as i had her pal on the phone the other night saying as much an the fact she got abit upset about all this makes me think that too, i just think shes quite a messed up woman who uses sex to control everything an when things get close to her she gets scared and pushes them away...

sorry this is probably a bit too late???
well u shouldnt try to avoid the conversation just dont bring it up. if she does bring it up (which it sounds may be likely) then again dont get nervous or frustrated, you want her to think you are in control of yourself (its fine if you want her to control you in the sack tho hahah). the best thing to do would be to talk about it. let her know that you may have lost your cool or whatever but remember dont let it sound as tho u are worried about it or she will pick up on it.
again sorry this is probably too late. let us know how it turned out...

lol i learned my lesson with younger woman hahaha just abit too much for me i think

basically i spoke to her last night, she sent me a text saying to call her at seven so i replied saying id call her about 8ish but then i left it to about half nine & when i called her phone was off, then i get a call about ten from her saying this.

basically she brought up everything from our little argument if you can call it that & was saying that she did really like me upto then & that it was all abit much ( i kinda think that too ) but then she says shes just down the road from where i live kinda hinting about meeting yet she then says lets just call it a day?

What do ya think i should do? i tempted to just leave her now as it was fun & its becoming abit much like shes super high maintenance & i get the feeling like she wants me to keep fighting her as i think she likes me quite abit & is just trying to push me away cause she gets hurt alot but at the sametime i think i should just get rid of her now as ill look like some stalker if i call her now as we said "lets just leave it" so i think i may just leave it but its a shame as i did quite like her.

Oh well you live & learn & i was tought a very good lesson just go with the flow & dont wind yourself with questions.