Yea last night i just kept thinking of my ex from 2 years ago.
I feel im a looser because every since we broke up i could never get a real girlfriend agian. Sure some ugly girls liked me and i gave 1 a try but that ugly girl was ugly, i didnt have feeelings for her and didnt have physical attraction.

Its weird bcause my ex's face is hot but her body is just bad now. I think she got a little fat.
There are alot of reasons why i hate my ex
but I still want her back because i think that maybe things will be when we first dated.

Its been 2 years and Im not over her like wth is wrong with me!

she was a cool girl too, played video games like me and was chill.. only dated 1 a week lmao and i didnt like to date much.

Dude you have a case of one-itis. I had this about a year ago (I'm 18) she was my highschool love and all that bs. We went out and broke up a total of 14 times. every time i thought it would be the same as when i first met her. it wasnt. never will be again. You just have to come to that conclusion. It's like playing final fantasy over and over at first your like fuck yeah this is fucking awesome. then you beat it and try again and the feeling is never the same. You just have to go get a HB that somwhat reminds you of her and it will completely erase her.

GFTOW!

then you will be saying how silly you were wanting her back

do you go to clubs and bars a lot? Im sure if you go out and start approaching women and meeting them. Than you'll realize that your life is good without her.
Whats the point of crying over one women, when there are a billion other women out there. TAKE YOUR PICK!

I had a GF for a year and a half that I really loved and she really loved me, we used to live together and all, after we broke up I went to work in another country for about 6 months, in the beginning I was really broken, but then I got into the game. Now, I'm still in great contact with her and hang out and all, as a person I still think she's awesome, but I know we cannot be a couple, and I don't feel bad about it, because I get women anyway, and I can still enjoy her company.

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It's just your mind accepting that you two won't work anymore. You can either take the approach street took or the path of complete alienation of the girl like i did. Your choice

yea I have tried alienating my self with her for a year , and now i cant even talk to her as a friend on messenger. I never called her in so long. I do want to be able to hangout with her and i do want another HB but I have no success in getting a girl hotter than her even tho shes not even that hot in my eyes.

The last time I spoke to her was an argument and i just wanted to prove to her that im smarter than b4 n i wudnt just take in what ever she thinks is right. The argument was pushed by me and I wanted to argue with her cause she wasnt even talkin and i was trying to hae a conversation on windows live messenger.

The argument was stupid ofcourse but I won it and then she left and I never really had contact with her.

I want to keep contact so that when I do get a hot girl and i see her at a dance or something, she will b jelious.

is that bad?

It's not bad it's just going to keep you dangling on her. If you want to win her back I say don't tell her your smarter prove it.

Here are your options, since that flame is not going to rekindle you can either, continue doubting yourself and end up alone, or be proactive and give yourself the opportunity to move on. We all have our sad love stories, but its how you are after the fact that defines you; and the only person that can make the decision to act is you.

You can say that youre not into her but in a way you still are, you need to chill, and maybe it's best that you don't see her for a while

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thx guys you guys are right, its best off i just leave it. Shes not worth it. I guess I just want a positive connection with her so that it wouldnt be awkward if we did end up seeing eachother at a mall or something.

I recently tlaked to her yesturday and ofcourse conversation was slow as hell. It was on msn, iv never talked to her in person or phone since around the breakup time. But yea I didnt argue i thought more positive. I think she doesnt hate me so its all good.

I think im about to get over her for good, or maybe i have now.
Anyways thanks for listenin and reading and helpin out.

2010 is ganna be my yeaar.... i feel it !

Zomb!e, your final fantasy reference made my night, so true! hahaha.

I am in the same position as you are in mate. i just came off the most serious relationship of my life and shes been with 3 other guys since we broke up!!! WTF? I know why though. Its her insecurities that drive her to do that. (guys pay me attention so I must be hot...wait my mind tells me otherwise so let me go out and find another guy to pay me more attention)

I felt like sh1t until I figured out that what we had wasnt the end of everything, we had major issues with the relationship and I honestly deserve better. The problem is that when I look back I keep seeing the best things about her which drives me crazy, instead of seeing both the good and bad.

Itś in your head mate. All of it is. The reason you are not getting hot girls is because you have an attitude the poisons your chances.relax. Ask a mate to help you progress and if you meet someone hot and lovely then you will see how your old relationship stacked up in reality. I am and heś such a great guy that I know he will push me and open my eyes

Itś amazing how shit you feel after losing someone and they find someone else but its all part of life so get busy living or get busy dying and quite beating yourself up over her!!!

i don't have much advice to offer

although a story, it feels good to talk about it. I met a girl the first week I went to college, she had a boyfriend at the time, and he was awesome too. We all hung out, watched movies, tv shows with my suitemates and dorm buddies.

We were great friends and took some of the same classes, just friends for a year and a half. We went on trips, to the beach just very adventurous. She was my personal cheerleader, and at this point I would have given my life up for her. She made me feel important all the time, and I craved more and more of that attention.

One vacation we went on there was too much sexual chemistry and I made a move, it felt so right! We dated for 8 months and she found another guy.

I met her 5 years ago, and haven't seen her in 2 years, and there isn't a day that goes by without me thinking about her.

We're in 2 different points in our life, I'm finishing up school, and she just had a kid.

My only advice, if you really do love her, you need to let her know.

I tried to get over my ex, I've since slept with 24 girls, broke some of their hearts llike mine was broken, tried 2 serious relationships and I still feel this void.

There is a chance you associate her with a moment in your life when everything was perfect and your mind associates her with those perfect moments.

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