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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 4:49 pm 
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some girl just indirectly told me and other girls agree they just want you to shut up and make out. Thats why they are drunk for. But i have tried with some girls it didnt really work, maybe i spend too much time talking to them before wards? Do you skip comfort game in college or what? How long should you talk to them for, also i see most of the guys that are consistently making out with girls(not the hottest around), are the guys who just hang around the walls have small talks with low energy openers and conversations, looks both side are just bored and the girl just grind on the guy and they start making out.


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Hi man. Since i'm studying in a univercity, i have actually been thinking about the fact that college-game, espesially in a public place is a kind of different of the game you read and watch about.

I don't what if you are into ONS with drunk/slutty girls, but if you are there's really not much you will need to say. If you have warm social proof/value in the room, the physical escalation usually goes turbo after 10-15 minutes, thats my note on that. My experience is that these girls are not the HB10s, who always require more work.

If you want do a ONS you should just make sure you look good and shiny, put a nice smile on your face and just have fun talking to a lot of people (but don't be to needy tho, lol)

Oh ye, one more note on college parties. Usually the music really loud and you can't hear your self talk, which makes it very hard to have a 10 mins conversation or forces you to isolate/takaway.

Share your thoughts if you have any.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 8:02 pm 
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do you kino /and use sexual hints alot in those 10-15mins ? Or just the occasional neg/tease/take aways.


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Ye sure, i'm not advanced enough to call my self a PUA (as many guys do) but i try to kino-ping as much as possible. Small touches ad gestures while talking helps me to create connection.

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3 IOI then phase shift. Something that ive used with good success is asking "Do you want to kiss me" If she says yes u kiss her, if she hesisitates u kiss her, and if she says no u just roll off and say oh, it looked like you had something on your mind.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 7:09 pm 
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From what I observe (I'm also in university), it's not so much what you talk about. In other words, the content of your conversation rarely ever matters. I have incredibly intelligent friends with so much smart things to say that have no luck with woman. On the other hand, how much YOU talk and HOW you talk do matter. Always let the woman do most of the talking- I read this somewhere, and I think it may be from 60daysofchallenege, and it's that THE PERSON TALKING IS THE PERSON QUALIFYING. You are qualifying yourself when you're talking- and if what you're talking about has no substance, she will lose attraction for you. I'm starting to notice that the less talking I do, the more talking the woman will do. And the earlier I convey my sexual interest in her, the more quickly the conversational will become sensual.

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the earlier I convey my sexual interest in her, the more quickly the conversational will become sensual.
Yup.

First off, at a college party, social proof matters a lot. Make sure you are seen to know a lot of the people there and are always in-set, even if it's just with a dude and a HB5. Social proof is easier to fake in a college party, because you can go round hi-fiving guys and girls for no reason (and people will assume you know them) but at a random bar those people will probably leave you hanging.

Basically, if you spend 20 minutes talking to a girl about classes and mutual friends without escalating or making your intentions clear, she's gonna start assuming you're not sexually interested in her, or you're a pussy or gay. If you make it clear either through your words or actions that you think she's cute within the first few minutes, then you'll know straight away whether she's interested in you or not, and you can then escalate with confidence or open a new set.

TIP: Your value is highest when you are in-set with an HB or two. Whilst interacting with them, force IOIs from other HBs in the room with a smile, wave, wink or raise of your cup. That way, if you get blown out you can immediately approach a girl who you KNOW likes you, and you're never left in the awkward situation of having a set leave you standing by yourself looking for someone you know or another set to approach.

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