You build attraction with your target who at somepoint in your game sees that you're pre-selected by alot of other women. But let's say it's more women than what she would expect.

She develops jealousy which builds a connection between you and her (which works in your favor) but then afterwhile (because of all the other women) you realize that she's not as interested in you anymore as much as she used to be, because instead of IOIs you're now getting IODs. In fact, she now thinks you're a "player" and/or a "ladies man". And whenever you try to show her attention and move things forward, you run into brick walls. It's like you don't get the same energy and excitement out of her like you used to, and when you try to talk to her, you get IODs and she says things to you like "why don't you go talk to your other women!" or if you try to make plans with her she says "no" because she feels like an option, etc.

In other words, at what point does pre-selection and jealousy work against you and when do you / should you turn that off as an attraction mechanism?

That's a situation many have had. This is when you have to use a good sense of "personal diplomacy" to diffuse the situation.

Dude, I say after reading this post you go and try one more time to get her to be un-jealous... just one more time...if it does not work DO NOT dedicate more of your time even thinking about it... and move on.

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well there is actually NOTHING .. let me repeat NOTHING, wrong with that, if that's the case you can easily and comfortably just have a conversation with a girl, like with an actual person. She already knows your sexual and preselected and all...

besides, you should create a feeling in a girl that your some sort of an adventure for her, if you can create this feeling that girls fall for you all of the time she will be intrigued by you

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Well said.

Ok so she might think that you are a player. Big deal. Let me put it like this, it doesnt matter. She has a million other misconceptions about you and you cannot correct them all. The only thing you can do is not being a loser.

If I am challenged with this type of situation I would just say: Yeah, I might be. Im not gonna apologize for it.

Keeping the frame is more important than whatever she thinks about your lifestyle. Stay in control and dont let her get the upper hand. Never ever apologize for who you are! You could be the worst guy in history and as long as you feel that you have the right to be, others will as well!

wow! Awesome feedback!! Thanks guys!!!