I've only kissed two girls in my lifetime.. And in some kind of way i dont feel turned on being around them, even though theyre very hot.. I dont know why.. I just dont feel comfortable and it feels strange to kiss.. Maybe its just that im unused to it? Anyways im not gay or anything.. I cant stop thinking of girls but i dont know why i feel so uncomfortable around them? Help me please

I truly mean no offense my friend but it's possible you are gay, and all this "thinking" of girls and such is a reaction formation in order to shield your own mind from the thought.

Or you just need to work on it and break out of your shell. I feel awkward around hot ones too. I feel nervous and like they're judging me. Is it like that for you?

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What's your mother up to these days?

I'm not a psychologist or anything so I don't know if I can help at all. All I know is that despite the fact that i'm very new to the game I have always felt extremely awkward around women but at the same time I loved every minute of that awkwardness. When I'm with beautiful women it hurts so good. Is this the kind of problem you are feeling? it's just anxiety and can be overcome quite easily with practice, practice, practice.

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or anti anxiety meds.

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i have had that a few times with some girls i kiss closed but didnt feel attracted to on the inside. meaning that they actually really bitchy and totaly unnactractive for me from the inside. but that only happens when i actualy know what they are like, if i dont know them i got no problems with it.

it might just be because you just dont dig there inside and your mind feels guilty about you 'taking advantage'of the situation

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Can I ask you a question? Are you comfortable with yourself? Be real honest when you answer this. A few of my friends have told me they couldn't do what I do hooking up with girls because of themselves, not the women. Or, I'm guessing, that even though they may BE attractive, YOU may not be attracted to them.

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Try to kiss a man and decide then which gender you decide to have a relationship with.

I personally am not a very senual person unless I both:
a) am really attracted to them physically; and
b) feel a connection to them

I have honestly never really wanted to kiss, or received any real pleasure from the of kissing any of my partners (the part b is a problem for me). There has only ever been one person I really, REALLY wanted to kiss, she is a stripper who totally seduced and teased me the first time we danced. I have never kissed her, but I'm working on it (there's a thread on that here too)

For all those suggesting gay-ness - I can't comment on your case, but I can confirm that it's not the case for me, yet this has still been my experience.

My experience with the stripper (now my friend) has helped me to realize that I can have those sensual/emotional feelings, and also helped me to develop my emotional muscles a little. If you are not gay, my advice is to just keep putting yourself around very beautiful women, stop to appreciate their scent, the softness of their flesh, the warmth of their breath on your neck. Make friends with them - real friends, so you can become more comfortable around them. This may help to stimulate the sensual/emotional part of your brain, and help to develop it a little more. I think thats what's been slowly happening with me since I met my friend.

no offense sir, but you are soooooooo gay that when you see a hot girl, your penis goes inside of you and back out your asshole, otherwise known as an anti erection

dude everybody gets AA but knows girls turn them on and i mean in general so maybe it can be AA but if your gay then dont be in denial nothing wrong with it but dont force yourself into being strait it's 2010 if your gay its whatever.but find help if its not being gay it can be a mental thing like past memory that affects your subconsience(sorry bad speller)

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why are you saying no offence when you clearly try to offend him? don't act like a 15 yeard old dick. this forum is to help eachother, so start doing so

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Dude not cool and totally unhelpful

Now for a real responce,

I have been with some HB's and wasnt attracted in that sort of way, maybe you just didnt connect with them, maybe physical attraction isnt the only thing that does it for you. If you find a girl you truely like and would love to date and you have this problem, then maybe it is time to start reasessing yourself.