So I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and we've been getting on great.

We have alot of things in common. We wanna do all the same things etc

We've been talking each night for hours on end. The conversation does not have a sexual nature. I dunno! She just doesn't talk about it and when I try to initiate it, she doesn't respond to it! She just laughs it off.

She's been in a few relationships before and has been hurt. She's going through a divorce now too.

I really like hanging out with her and can see her as my girl.

Thing is, I can see her dragging this on and me chasing her like a stupid puppy dog which I don't want to be part of at all! I've let that happen to me before and its not a nice feeling.

She keeps saying 'we're friends'...Its like she overuses the word 'friends' to hammer it into my head. Or could it be a defense mechanism?

Is it time to have talks and lay my cards on the table?

What should I say?

I haven't developed any feelings for her. I just enjoy talking to her.

I think the problem is all these long drawn out conversations you're having with her...
If you had any mystery, you have since lost it.

I don't think she's dropping the 'friend' line to throw you off either. It's her mechanism of saying 'back off.'

I think you should have made a move on her sooner.

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I told her last night where I stand and she told me she felt the same.

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