Hey Fellow Puas,
so here is the story (will add details so you get the big picture)
Pretty much for the last few weeks I have been seeing a HB 9.5 we used to hook up randomly at clubs when we saw each other but just making out. We lost each others numbers because we both lost our phones but reconnected after I saw her working at a restaurant. The next day we met and went for dinner and everything was good had really good conversation made out alot and spent good time together. Throughout the next 2 weeks things got more comfortable and she started opening up to me and telling me many things and spent the next 2 weeks with me (almost every night except for a few) This whole time I remained alpha and negged her here and there but was also a gentlemen by opening the door for her and being cocky funny. After a week in we had sex, the sex was nothing great and I never even came, I am really attracted to this girl but believed that I had sexual anxiety and was just thinking too much about it. So the other night comes along and we come home from dinner and she takes a shower half way through she asks me to join, I oblige and she starts going down on me, I get protection and now I can't get hard even though I was hard as a rock when she was going down on me. I get out of the shower she comes to bed and I eat her out till she cums. The next morning rolls along and I drop her off at school, as we are going to school she talks about how I will eventually meet improtant ppl in her life it it was meant to be, then as we are leaving she jokingly says while laughing yeah I guess I won't see you anymore and starts sending mix signals, I play it off as I dont care and just say whatever (she plays many mind games, and so do I) she kisses me goodbye three times and goes to school. That whole day she never txt me or calls me , and next day (friday) she doesn't text or call either, usually she sends me text everyday something like I cant stop thinking about you or I need you. Now its sunday I call her when I get up and no answer, 9 hrs later and still no call back. While she was staying at my place she left some stuff at my house like toothbrush and her eye glasses that she for sure needs. I want this girl back but from her signs it seems as though she is just ignoring me and maybe forgot about some of her stuff? How can I initiate to get this girl back ? Is this a lost cause ? Any help would be much appreciated. I just dont know how this girl went from so hot to so cold to me in such a short period of time. Thanks Fellas

it could be that she was dissapointed that you didnt have sex, even though you ate her out. But dont worry about that little problem my friend, you will get more comfortable the more you do 'it' or try to do 'it' and then your problem will probably dissapear! I sometimes have that problem the first time as well if I really like the girl, I get nervous and can go from full to limp in the blink of an eye.

In your situation, I would text her something like "You left some stuff here, why dont you come pick them up and if you behave i might just fuck your brains out"

Whatever she texts you back will be the answer you're looking for:

- If she doesnt text you back, it's over, move on.
- If she says she doesnt need the stuff, its over, move on.
- If she says she'll come pick them up, you have a good chance at finally fucking her.
- If she asks you to bring it to her, you are too busy.

Hope this helped you out a little bro best of luck,

Chillburg.

Thanks chillburg
I think this is a lost cause, tried calling her the other day after not talking for 2 days and no answer, haven't talked to her in 5 days her stuff is still at my house. Might just drop it off and pull some cocky funny and act like I dont care and the space is what i needed as well. Maybe she will come crawling back, the help is much appreciated definitely feeling better about it.

so howd it go???

Update: Just froze her out after she didn't pick up and today she text me how you doin? I say who is this? she says ____ guess you got a new phone, i said naw just clearing up some space (which was probably a prick move but I dont want her to think Im a lightswitch that she can just turn on and off) she said ok ill get to the poinnt i need to grab the glasses i left at your place let me know when youre free...I did some recovery by saying ill let you know your not even gonna tell me how your holidays went? then she was like they were great! blah blah hwo about you? I just didn't reply because I dont like txting conversations like that over the phone. So here it is... I'll probably be seeing her in a few days, just gonna wait for her to initiate again to get her glasses, dont' really know how to play it ...any advice would be good? I want her back but dont know how to go about it to recover the situation