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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 5:39 pm 
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yo studs,

throughout the september months of last year i was texting this HB9 for a few weeks, i’d managed to establish a decent rapport, talking for hours every night, things seemed set, after all, she was chasing me. this time period overlapped with returning to college, being a huge college, seeing one another was rare, however, when it did occur, things were warm, but i didn't push things forward. i was trapped within my circle of friends, and didn't approach, what makes things worse is that she's one of those shy pretty girls, who only travels with one or two friends at a time, i should have approached easily. initially, my plan was to set a date before we go back to college, then upon return, i'd have something physical to build upon, however, after missing a few opportunities, i decided to cut my losses and move onto other girls, act disinterested when she's around. however, months later, i realise that i like this girl properly, and see her as more than just a conquest.


any tips on how i should attempt to rekindle things? texting seems the easy option, however, i need something something physcial. referencing any banter from past conversations would be weird, any coy ideas for approaching? the fact that we know each other on a different level makes things worse.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 6:03 pm 
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Why not tell her "hey it's been a while, let's go have a drink and catch up" this way you have a 'date' but it doesnt seem like a date.

maybe a bit AFC, but I did this once too and it worked fine.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 6:12 pm 
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yeah anything to 'catch up' or just ask them out on something normal

FOR EXAMPLE

if you just haaaappened to do recreational drugs, ask them if they wanna smoke up

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Why not tell her "hey it's been a while, let's go have a drink and catch up" this way you have a 'date' but it doesnt seem like a date.

maybe a bit AFC, but I did this once too and it worked fine.
I think it's perfect its not AFC at all, it's carefree

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 8:07 pm 
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over a few weeks, facebook message her, then facebook chat with her, get her number (even if you have it) and wait 3-9 days, text her. always 2 steps forward 1 step back.


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