Ok So I met this girl at the club one night got her number and had a fun night. Didnt really get to talk so I figured I wouldnt get a day 2. Called and texted her a couple times back in fourth everything was cool. Saw her the next week at the club and I hungout with her a little more. After the night was over texted me everyday after that wanting to hangout so we did. Went to the mall and did some other random stuff. It was fun and we had a good time she was really in to me. I made the date fun it just wasnt us walking around the mall. Then I didnt hear from her for a couple days untill I ran into her at the club again when I was out with my boys. She was with another guy and her friends. I didnt care at all she gave me a hug and what not. We danced alittle to. I kind of didnt really pay attention to her because I didnt want to deal with the other guy. So I dont hear anything from her untill I go to the club again. She ignored my Happy new years text. At the club I dance with her and everything seems cool but she is not texting me at all or calling me. She told me to call her the next day but I put it back on her and told her to because I didnt want to seem needy. Havnt heard from her after her being so into me. Any ideas whats up?

She has moved on and so should you. It sounds like she was attracted to you(she would not have hung out with you at the mall if she didn't like you then) but has since changed her mind. You probably screwed it up during your day 2 since it sounds like she started giving you the cold shoulder after that. Did you ever kiss her? If you have been dancing and what not and got a day 2 there is no reason why you should not have been hooking up. Go find another girl and remember to escalate much quicker.

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~Carmo~

nailed it....you failed to escalate and lead the interaction. some girls are hard to read but i think all girls like to be dominated.

i took a girl out recently a few times, we kissed but nothing more, and it was my fault for not escalating. after a week it went cold. few weeks later i re opened but was more dominate

lw: movie night my house, your coming over
hb: are you asking me or telling me
lw: telling you
hb: stepping your game up, i like it

this hb is the dress me up, take me out, on the outside im a good girl...true colors she can be bad, you just have to discover that side. Be dominate, escalate!!!!!!!!

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