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| fontenoy | PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 10:40 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 06, 2010 10:37 am Posts: 1 | | Can anyone suggest any advantages/disadvantages to saying, "We should hang out some time", rather than saying, "Let's get together next week"?
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| Bormad | PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 11:00 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:35 pm Posts: 227 Location: Glasgow, Scotland | | The second statement shows more intent about yourself. An even better one could be " So you will be at *Location* for *time*" without bringing it up previously
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| Carmo | PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 5:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Thu Oct 15, 2009 2:07 pm Posts: 203 Location: Saint Petersburg FL | | The more specific you can be the better. You need to be the one in control of the decisions so a wish washy "we should hang out sometime" is not enough. Do something like the follow:
PUA: We should get together this week for a drink...
Girl: That sounds cool
PUA: I am busy Monday and Tuesday, whats better for you Wed or Thurs...
This doesnt give the girl much of a change to say no since you've given her multiple options. You need to nail down something specific so try to make actual plans rather than just a generic "hang out sometime". _________________ ~Carmo~
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