so guys i dont get it:

i came back from oversea study about a month ago to my home country. on the day of my arrival a girl added me on facebook. I accepted her, she was hot, i gamed her and i inivted her over to my place with her best friend (which i knew already) for cooking. there we had our first k-close.

then she had to leave the country for london for 3 days. during that absence i wrote her a single sms how she liked it overthere. she responded with: its great.

after that we meet again in a coffee shop and she came home with me again to k-close (my parents where at home so an f-close was unthinkable).

at that point i really thought she was into me: becuase of the following: i read an email from her to her best friend during teh time i gamed her on facebookk (she wrote stuff like: i feel like a 13 year old school girl around him, furthermore her best friend and she always asked me about my other girls i had overseas- becuase they saw some facebook pictures with some girls)

however, yesterday we where in a club together, she was totally drunk, we sill made out. when she left for teh washroom she gave me her phone to watch out for it. i looked at some of her send msg to her friend. and on of them contained a msg she send from london: oh my god he wrote me, how can i get out of this situation again?

this shocked me.
then she wanted to leave because she was totally drunk and gave my best friend a hickey on his neck.
furthermore my best friend told my that my girls best friend told him: that she isn't serious about this.

she then send me a sms saying she was sorry for the night.

i havent responded yet... any advice?????
whats wrong with her?

Oh dear, looks like you find out that a label doesn't automatically make you that person.

You're only giving us stuff on this girl. But what about you? How did you handle the whole situation from the beginning.


There's nothing wrong with her, take a look in the mirror

Ouc my friend Ouch, well the final drunken night with the whole hickey on the neck hard to call achole is unbelieveably good at fucking up relationships and love life, even better than yr parents at home

secondly after two kiss closes was there any kiss initiation on her part, or was you still starting it off in the night club...

the text from london mmm not sure ive seen this when a girl is into you but her friends are not so she talks u down to them but actually quite likes u its VERY rare but it has happened...

i wouldnt advise confronting her, i would pass it off and next time you go out use her a wingwomen without her knowing it show yr social profile to others game a fw others if she gets annoyed she likes u if she end up on some other guy she doesnt (WARNING NOT FULL PROOF TRIED ONLY TWICE)

and notes for future....

NOT COOL TO READ MESSAGES BEHIND HER BACK JUST NOT COOL helpful but not kool lol

Just because she says something like that doesn't mean that it's true. It may be in that moment that she wasn't as attracted to you as she is now, but the fact remains that she feels comfortable enough, and attracted enough to meet with you, to go on day 2's with you, etc.

It's entirely possible that her saying that was just her trying to connect with her friend, or talking about another guy. I know that sometimes I've been guilty of saying things that I don't believe or things that I don't feel just to be taken well in a social situation or to feel as if I fit in, and this may be her way of doing this.

She might not want to be serious about it, she might not want to be serious about you, but want has nothing to do with emotions. Just because I want Megan Fox to run over and jump on my dick doesn't mean she will. Want =/= Actions.

My advice; don't let it get to you. If it is about you, play it out until something happens or you get blown out, no harm in trying and there's always more girls out there.

Obviously you aren't a "master PUA"

Remember the basics, read up on some material, figure out where exactly you went wrong, then go out and try your new-and-improved method on a different girl. Don't even worry about that one anymore.

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If my post made me appear homosexual, I want you all to know that prior to sitting down at my computer I slammed 15 shots of whiskey, went balls-deep into my woman, and recited Clint Eastwood lines for 20 minutes.

I might not be right, however is it plausible that she left the text on her phone as bait to see if she could trust you? Don't put all your eggs in one basket anyways.

Move on and forget about her. She doesn't really seem like a quality girl anyway if she would hook up with you then give your friend a hicky the same night. If you just want to f her that is fine but it sounds like you want something more. Figure out where you went wrong(probably came across as needy and or insecure along the way) and move on to the next girl.

You need to lose your scarsity mindset and realize that girls are a dime a dozen.

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~Carmo~