Hi guys im BLAiZE
i am very new here in fact this is my 2nd post
so please bear with me if i did make any mistakes lol

so last night i was itching to go to a club to boost my game and test out openers
but i just recently transfered to a new apt and my friends were all busy so i had no one to go with. although through a neighbor i managed to go with a guy not really a PUA just so i won't look like a freak being all by myself anyway at any rate it was a faliure

i opened a 2 set and this HB 7 sorta chubby was like looking at me as if like ow i know you like me and like she wasn;t responding to my jokes and stuf my wing wasn't doing anything either to top it all off i was still pretty new

so i just got a question for you guys do you recommend going to a club on my own
if so could you guys give any pointers or important key points to remember.

ow and sorry for asking but is there like a neg or opener database thats like collected in a thread that i could use a whole lot of thanks

=BLAiZE

I go to clubs by myself all the time and do not find any problems in doing so.

You don't need a wingman when you go out. Actually, a bad wingman can be worse than going it alone. Cause when the wingman messes up it lowers your value in front of the girls cause you are associated with him. Then again, I think you already knew that.

My angle is that as I walk into the club I strike up smalltalk with some guys that are already there. And say such thing as 'Hey man, how is this place so far? Other places are kinda dead right now'. This serves the following purpose, it makes it look like I am not alone when girls are looking my way and it helps me get into their social circle just in case they have some woman friends in the group.

Other times I have opened up some sets for some guys with girls that they are interested in. Once I open for them its their game, not mine, and then I give some reason to walk away after I introduce them. As I am wondering around, I try to dive in and out of the sets I open up for these guys to make it appear that I am with a 'group'.

Also, when you do this, it raises your value not only in the eyes of the girls in the group but also makes you the alpha male of the group. You become referred to as 'The Man' in that group of guys and they will say this even in front of girls. Raising your value even more. Anytime a guy refers to another guy as 'The Man' he immediately subordinates himself and girls pick up on this. So when you do this, its a win-win situation.

And its also great practice to open up sets for girls that you are not really interested in. It takes the scare-factor away and it raises your confidence. Plus, when other girls see you with a 'practice' set, it raises your value even more.

Confidence, confidence, confidence is something I cannot stress enough.

Best,

J-Dub

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Thanks a Bunch J-Dub your reply just inspired me
to finally gather up the guts later tonight to go alone

i just seriously wanted to try it

but first ill first do the newb mission where i say hi to random girls for the whole day haha

thanks man

no it wasn't, that's how you start, and it is a good start you already open sets and try, don't be afraid to screw up its part of it.

you're taking you're first steps.. welcome to the community

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