...she has a crazy ex boyfriend. He's on drugs all the time, and apparently he's cheated on her a few times. I was talking on facebook to a female friend, and she said that I should talk to this girl because she thinks I'm hot. We've been talking, apparently she's scared the boyfriend will scare me off, that's not what I'm bothered about. The main two things I have a problemn with are that I'm worried she might be using me to get at the guy, and/or is gonna end up going back to the guy. Now there are bf destroyers etc. I could use those, but would that really work since she's not going out with him? I commented on her wall on facebook (no I haven't met her in person yet, we've only been talking for an hour) and he commented saying ''Fuk u chel u wana shag sum1 else now i dnt even talk to girls coz i want u thts us dne for ever u slag''. Maybe she's the bad one? I dunno, but still, shes fit as fuck, she seems nice, innocent til proven guilty... If she is really a nice girl, what can I do to fuck the chances up of her getting back with the arsehole? Help out ASAP please, meeting her tomorrow night

OMG! Don't all rush to help me at once! Lol...

Alright dude.. If you ask me. This girl has some issues you have to deal with or sort out if you will. The main is her bf or whatever he is. The second are her intentions for you since they are unknown. There is a good rule in the community that says "Always leave a girl better then you found her" So my question for you is this. What are your intentions for her? Sex, Friends with benefits, friends or to be your girl friend? This is a very important question that needs to be answered before I can help you.

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Thanks, Alias.

Nah never mind, she's gone back to the ex, I should have known she was no good. Not really leaving her better than when I found her, she's going back to a complete dickhead. She don't wanna meet me today cos she thinks she's getting back with him, so I just told her ''ok that's cool, never mind then''. I'm acting like I don't give a fuck. I know she's out tonight at the same place I'm going to, and I will be surrounded by girls, I'm just gonna show her what she's missing. My friend who introduced me in the first place is trying to find introduce me to other girls for some reason, but hey I'm not complaining, they're all hot lol. But yeah I am looking for a gf, and I want to get to know her and that but if she likes the dickhead it's her loss, and I'm gonna make sure she knows I can easily get more.