ok guys im in dire need of your advice

ive been in the game for a while ive read up on what there is to read on and as a sudent im out all of the time. even though sine learning the game ive become a bit better with gals im still not getting the results that i want and im still left being stressed out with myself, its making me lose faith in this thing and thts somthing i really dont want to do as its helped so many of you.

my main goal out of the game is to have a choice, im not interested in being a player who pulls everyone, more just i dont want to see a girl im interested in and thing to myself that there isnt a chance (as some of you know its nt a good feelin)
id hoped by now id be more confident but i still find myself being insecure lyk about how i look and how i act.

so im looking for the core essentials here as im trying to go natural without routines. my theory is if i follow the core essentails of this you can use them to be ready for anything (ironicaly reducing my skillset in order to expand it)
so any help from you guys would be much appreciated

thanks for readin this rlly long messege and have a happy new year

first rule... DON'T be stressed (easy to say then do.. I know, but heres how: )
second rule:... no rules, just HAVE FUN, the whole idea is just to enjoy life, as you said you know the triggers and the stages, so next time just start talking to women, if youll like one continue escalating if not, then screw her, she wasn't good enough for you, after youll learn to have fun youll see youre sarging to have fun not girls, youre enjoying youre night outs and if you want you can get women.

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the fine gent above nailed it, going out "sarging" is the worst thing you can do if you want to get women. It puts you on edge and makes you outcome dependent.

I haven't gone looking or tried to get with women in months now, instead I just walk up to them and talk. For one night you should try it no game plan or anything jsut walk up to a girl say hi and start talking.

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I agree with Jaybot!

Sarging for the sake of getting laid can be a bad thing. You love the prize more than the game...

The core essentials. I got mine from experience in field. I dont know if there is any other way to build up your inner game.

I rarely go out sarging just to get laid anymore, I talk to people and pickup come out of it. It is a matter of experience I guess.

Ezo

cheers for the advice guys much appreciated