So I met up to grab a bite with this girl off POF.... I wouldn't really call it a date but I thought the meeting went pretty well and ended with a hug, a pretty good tight hug on her end..... but now I've noticed the text messaging has kind of slowed down, she doesn't really text me outta the blue at all, but she responds to my texts but they are short answers and not much to work with.... She is into rock climbing and knows that I have never been so I asked her if she wanted to go rocking climbing after the new year and she send back "that would be fun" If she wasn't interested at all she wouldn't respond to my messages and wouldn't have agreed to go rocking climbing right??

I just feel like I'm losing her and need to make the rock climbing thing really fun, So I was thinking about going first so I can get a hang of it then when we go together I'll act like I've never done it and let her feel like she's teaching me. Or am I reading into things to much??

First of all you can't be losing her if you never won her in first place. I suppose she doesnt take you as a boyfriend material because you didnt show her on your "first date" that you are interested and dont try so hard, you need to change your mind set a little bit. She wont apriciate if she has to teach you simply because girls dont like to teach guys stuff but the opposite they get really into you if you can teach em something new. End point stop texting her let her hesitate a little and then go out with her and kiss it or miss it. :)