Need help! My friend set me up with her cousin on a double date her and her bf. It went awesome, she was an hb, I didn't think she was into me so I just tried to have a good time and party. I kinda ignored her for the first hour or so. By the end of the night we were all over each other, she came to see me the next day. She was quickly going into girlfriend territory. The next weekend I met her friday and met her parents, saturday we go out with her friends she treats me like shit, tells me she's not ready for a relationship and it goes bad. I tell her she messed up taking me out with her friends to be a punching bag. I really dig this chic and I know she dug me for a moment anyway. Can I save it? Haven't talked since the incident, about a week ago. Thanks

This is very good! Let her know you won't accept this shitty behavior. It's best to turn down the heat now. Let her invest a little so you can reward her. I"m afraid I can't give you any more specific advice, cause I don't know what really was going when she was "treating you like shit". Please elaborate.

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She treated me like shit by ignoring me the entire night, I told her not worry just to have fun with her friends. I acted pretty indifferent at first.

I asked her if she wanted to dance, she says no, cool I go grab a beer and she's dancing with one of her friends, a dude.

Her body language gave a totally different vibe like I wasn't as cool as her friends and didn't fit with them. To be honest, i didn't they were acting like asses, drinking way too much and way too loud.

At that point I know the score, I asked what her problem is, I get the standard you're an amazing guy but...

I tell her she's messing up bad, and she didnt have to drag me out to tell me this shit, she's says we'll still be friends and go out. I tell her no way thats gonna happen. And that she just lost the best she was ever gonna find, pull her close to me, plant a deep kiss, i honestly felt her go limp when i did. She cries, I say save your tears and get me another beer, she does, I down it, go outside piss on her friends car and go home. End of report.

Aww...did you get you feewings huwt? Go pee on a caw...it wiw make you feew bettuh...

Seriously, that sounds pretty pathetic..."You just lost the best thing that's ever going to happen to you..." If you SAY that, it's incorrect.

You made her cry, peed on her friend's car, and whined about how you're the best guy on the planet...James Bond himself couldn't have been smoother.

Sure, you can salvage that...well...I dunno if YOU can salvage it with your fantastic attitude, but it is salvageable.

Woow woow wow... I didn't expect something like that joker213.

I think you went a little too far there. It's never good to make a girl cry, not even when she slaps you in the face! Like I said, it's a good thing to let them know you won't accept shitty behaviour. But to make her cry and piss on her friends car is not what I meant, LOL!

Remember to always be positive.

So what's the right way to handle a situation like this? Well, keep your value, save yourself a lot of time and just LEAVE. I wouldn't go out with her friends at all. When I go meet a girl, I want to meet her alone. Just the two of us, one on one.

Going out with her social circle is almost always a pain in the ass. What did you expect? All of her friends standing around the two of you in a circle and admire how great of a couple you are?

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Don't let no one get you down. Keep moving on higher ground.
Keep flying until, you are the king of the hill.
No force of a nature can break, your will to self-motivate.
She says this face that you see, is destined for history.

well, thats why I'm here, for help! In retrospect, I was pissy drunk myself at that point, but i will own my mistakes!

I didnt yell at her and certainly didnt expect any tears, I'm a noob at this and just tried to play a bad hand. This was the first chic i had dated since my divorce.

I learned alot from the night though, when to walk, and not to get pissy drunk when things go arwy. Maybe a should have found away to challenge or open the group up, but for some reason they wouldn't give me a chance, I really think they had their minds made up about me from the start.

I'm not gonna appologize for pissin' on her friends car though, that guy had game and i can appreciate that, but he was a real douche.

I'm no longer worried about saving this now, I've pulled up my underoo's and just gonna call it a learning experience. Thanks!