Well guys I have 2 situations, First one their is this bartender that has shown interest in me but I cannot close. She asked me to hang out with her last night after work but I never asked for her number. So how would be the best way to go about this next time I see her. The second situation is I am going to a huge New Years party and my dilemma is whether I should take a date and play it safe or go on my own and get in the field and put in some work. By the way I know for a fact that their will be plenty of 10 at this party. Just wanted some opinions or advice to see what you guys though.

Well next time you see her, ask if there's anyway you guys can see/talk to each other more, you will usually get a number.

About the party, I'd say bring a wing instead. It's a good way to get some practice.
Unless you decided you want this girl, if so bring her and practice on her. Good luck bro.

Well as far as the bartender goes she is a very good looking girl but I really don't care to get to close to her, because the times I have talked to her when I am out she always ask serious questions about relationships basically evaluating if I am boyfriend material. The one thing I don't want is a girl friend I just want to have a good time with her and I get sexual signals sometimes that she is looking for the same thing, but only get those when I'm drunk because I tend to be very blunt with her about sex.

As far as the party goes I have already been with the girl so I would just be playing it safe. So I think I'm going to go and play the game and get some practice.