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| zerocool22 | PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 10:19 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Dec 27, 2009 10:12 am Posts: 1 | | Hey Guys, I am looking for an ebook that will teach me or will help me improve my talk. Not just for girls, but for befriending everyone.
The problem i have when i go to a club and talk to friends or people i don't know is that i do not talk to them long, cause i have nothing to say. 3 - 5 minutes and then im done, and there are lots of people who just go to random people and talk to them for half an hour. I do have a girlfriend so I am not really after just talking to girls alone, but befriending a whole room and to be more popular/interesting.
Thx
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| Rainer | PostPosted: Mon Dec 28, 2009 2:57 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Dec 24, 2009 3:15 am Posts: 63 | | Can you talk to your friend for hours? It's basically the same concept except you don't have the comfort. Solution? Get that comfort. How? Talk to as many strangers as you can.
Try reading this ebook called, "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. It's not really that great, but it will teach you the basics.
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| Starfox | PostPosted: Mon Dec 28, 2009 4:54 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Mar 12, 2008 3:46 pm Posts: 163 | | Vin Di Carlo - Conversation Cure DVDs. Really helpful.
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| forken | PostPosted: Mon Dec 28, 2009 6:29 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:19 pm Posts: 4 AOL: solidus224 | | How yo make people like you in 90 second or less
is a very good book...very simple to use everyday and improve your connection with other people...theres also some NLP stuff on there...and give you some tip and exercise to help you improve
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| arcteryx | PostPosted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 6:43 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Mon Dec 07, 2009 4:40 am Posts: 32 | | Best advice I can give is stay away from simple questions/topics, ie: don't ask "how was your weekend?", instead ask "what did you do this weekend?" with the hope that their response will lead to something you can mutually discuss.
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