I might've overstated this but... Guys,I have a new revelation & realization that goes undetected to us men.

This girl who I kind of know(or see around)added me as friend on FB;I accepted her(Damn)!!! She's a UG(ugly girl,about a 3) but I just added her to be polite.

This frigging girl has not ceased messaging me on FB chat. I'd log off then bacc in and she'd message me as I sign in!!! I logged into yahoo messenger,she signed in and message me!!!

Ok,the moral of the story here is for we men to stop stalking girls online!!!

I used to do the same thing to women that the girl above does to me-stalk,harass and bug the shit out of me!! But When I was doing it(texting girls 5 times in a row without reply),I never imagined that those girls would ever view me negatively as I viewed the girl above.

Now that I know how it feels to be harrassed by a chicc(via text,calls,etc.)who Im not interested in. I would never do the same again to any other female. And yall guys should subscribe to that too!

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K-Loc,

I agree with you...if you don't get any IOI's from girls even on FB, don't be an AFC or Stalker by chatting/messaging her all the time.

I keep to the 50/50 communication rule. I start chat/message initiation only 50% of the time and the girl must initiate the other 50% of the time. That way I know she is interested AND (more importantly) I don't look like an AFC or Stalker. Keep to the 50/50 comm. rule.

As to my story, this HB5 girl I met at a friend's party some time ago. Well, she FB friended me and with me being polite, I added her. Now she is messaging me and wants me to call her (she gave me her number at the party without me asking for it)...Since she is an HB5, I'm not so into her. Additionally, at the party, I was just being the friendly guy I am and to my astonishment (listen hear everyone) I was doing the whole Love Triangle approach with my target and the HB5 was just an obstacle. I was talking to her and her friends and finally talked to my target (which I number closed).

Moral of the story, your obstacle in any Love Triangle situation can actually become infatuated with you during your game and THEY will start pursuing YOU.

Think about it everytime a girl keeps messaging/calling you and WHY she does this. Think about how you met and in what circumstances (e.g. Love Triangle approach). Think about what you did to make her interested in you.

Gotta love the PUA lifestyle...LOL...

Best,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Nice story J-Dub about the HB5(lol). It happens when you're polite that some people get the wrong message.

Ceratin guys fail to recognize when a girl is just being polite opposed to being interested.

I don't know if you agree but I believe that most girls give their #'s out of being polite. Then the guy not recognizing this would call her later on to get no answer. If she does answer(from not knowing who it is),she'll make up a reason to hang up in about 2-4 min. Now that she recognizes your #,she won't answer again.

That's a typical fucking theme that's played out with me over the years.

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Out of curiousity what is the love triangle technique? Sounds fun

The 'Love Triangle' technique is one of the oldest seduction methods in the book.

For example, say for instance, your target comes in with a group of friends...You talk to all the friends in the group but giving the least amount of attention to your target. This builds up value, suspense, curiosity, etc. in your targets attraction towards you... Later in the game you start gaming your target, but only towards the end of the game. Many PUAs at this point in time will try to isolate the target and close on them.

That is basically it in a nutshell.

The 'Love Triangle' can be used to accomplish many things. If there is a Alpha Male or Mother Hen in the group, you try to befriend them while working your game. If it works, in the end, your target will be more susceptible to you since you are already 'IN' the group so to speak.

It doesn't always work if you have a Alpha or Mother Hen in the group if they are onto your game though but its the best approach when your target is not alone or already isolated.

Best,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Thank you .

Yea I hate coming across mother hens as they are often so protective of the group so this should come in handy. Will be trying it tonight!

Good job J-Dub on breaking down the love triangle.

The Cube is a perfect routine for the love triangle or even palm reading where you exclude the OYD(Object of your desire-the target)or leave her or last.

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Good job J-Dub on breaking down the love triangle.

The Cube is a perfect routine for the love triangle or even palm reading where you exclude the OYD(Object of your desire-the target)or leave her or last.

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