i joined this dating site a few days ago. Not because I'm desperate or anything like that. I work 50 hours a week and get paid for 40 hours, and even for those 40 hours i get paid, it's still pretty crappy pay, so i don't have a whole lot of free time, or money, to hit up the bars every weekend. but I try to get out every chance I can...

anyway, i'm new to the whole "dating site" thing. the only way to communicate to one another is to look at profile and send a message to start chatting. I've chatted with a few women, but nothing more than only a handful of messages.

What could I do to really stick out in these womens' minds with just a simple message?

any thoughts?

Any ideas? How do i stick out from the rest of the guys on the site with a simple email?

First off, you are desperate. Don't try to save your ego in front of a bunch of strangers.

That 'simple message' that makes you stand out 5 feet taller than the rest doesn't exist.

I'm not a pro at dating sites, try pm'ing Jsmooth

Hey Newbguy,stop looking for the magic bullet which doesnt exist.

There's no 1 line or magic line you can use to get a chicc melting for you.

What can you do to seperate yourself? wow,I can go on & on. Just be different. The average guy on dating sites are nice guys,totally polite,bland,boring,etc. Be the opposit;not impolite but a bit cocky. Think out the box. Instead of asking her about her job,how many kids,schooling,etc. Ask her about her passions,dreams,what she wanted to do as she gotten big?Ask her,"whats the 1 thing she wanted to be or do without failure as a child-and dont say princess"[thats Mystery's line I think].

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Thanks Jav.

There is a ton of information if you flip through some of the pages on my ask thread. There is even a copy of a few ebooks I have written about online dating. The key here is that it takes a combination of things. Winning profile, good pictures, and good messages to the girls.

As it was pointed out there is no one great line or even two great lines that are going to woo women into responding to you with their phone number asking what time they can come over, make you dinner, and f-ck you silly. Sorry don't mean to be an ass but just emphasizing a point here.

There are several things that go into getting better with online game. The first step is going to be getting your profile up and running for you. How you tweak that to some degree will depend on which dating site you have chosen to use. Make sure to describe yourself, your hobbies, and your personalilty. Also make sure that you have done the same for the type of girl you want. So that the reader knows when they are your type. Then of course from there what types of pictures you have, how many pictures, what you are doing in the photos, etc. Not to mention there are a variety of good headlines to use....

It gets pretty deep but if you have a specific question about your profile or anything else you can reply here, or if you want to keep your information a little more private just click the PM button below this message to talk with me privately.

Jon

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